Hi, so. My girlfriend broke up with me this past Thursday. (M30 F26) On Friday it was her birthday so, I played it cool and talk to her a bit at work, gave her the present I bought for her and that was it. She tried to kiss me several times throughout the day. But, I didn't let her even though I wanted to kiss her back so bad. We used to call each other at night everyday, before we went to sleep. I was hoping for a phone call but it never came. But on Saturday morning, she called me. I could hear her voice and her daughter's. Her daughter is a year and a few months old. She was talking to her about getting dressed and singing tunes to her. Then I heard her say: "Give me my phone back, I gotta call grandpa." But the fun part, is... there weren't any noises like the phone moving or else. I could hear everything clearly. Until I heard her say: "Baby! What did you do? Give me my phone back! Hi, I didn't mean to call you, I'm sorry. My daughter grabbed my phone, so..." And then I said: "It's ok, no worries. I understand..." there was a silence and then we said goodbye. And today I uploaded a story on WA and she was the first one to watch it. Not even 5 seconds after uploading it, there she was. I do have feelings for her, I love her. But... I don't know... was it really an accident or did she staged it? Should we talk about it? It's like the third time we break up in these past months.
Girls, did my girlfriend really called me by accident 2 days after the break up or why did she do it?
What Girls Said
Sounds like you both genuinely love each other but maybe there's too much going on in her life to continue the relationship or maybe you guys just aren't great together as a couple. I think she still cares about you and it's definitely possible the call was an accident. Give her space. Give her time. And when she's ready to reach out again let her know you're there for her but don't love bomb her. Just treat her as a normal friend. She'll appreciate it more and it'll make her feel like you're putting in effort to give her what she wants so long as she's happy.
If she did call by accident then you’d use that as a reason to reach out and ask her about it. If she didn’t then you would likely find some other excuse to initiate contact. I could be wrong but on the off chance that I’m not, I’d say to do what feels right without waiting for a reason. If it’s on your heart to try and rekindle things then go for it, but if this is yet another breakup then trust me another one would come. You two genuinely need this time apart, and while I’m sure it’s hard especially since you work with her, it’s better to keep things in perspective and stay strong. It gets easier.