Do you know how to be a high-quality woman who gets the relationship she wants?

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Do you have any tips for it?

jim_moriarty · Accepted Answer

Women wants someone older than them, have more height, make more money than them.

Men wants someone younger than us, shorter than us, make less money than us.

Thats how male and female attraction works.

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All successful people have certain common characteristics. Woman find these qualities sexy in a man but men don't find qualities attractive in a woman, we have different set of standards.

If you are a successful man, its an attractive quality and women would be impressed by that but if you are a career women, good for you, but that doesn't impress any men (they might act like they are impressed and give you bs compliments but men don't actually care). Because men don't look for safety, protection or security from a woman. Men look for attractive feminine submissive women who would make a good companion and not a headache. Just be a feminine woman do duties of women in a family and you are more High value than many attractive woman.

Men categories women based on looks and age and boycount. Men are categorised by women according to his ability to protect and provide for them. 30 year old woman won't get the same attention a 22 or 25 year old woman get. Men are like appreciating assets and women are like depreciating assets. Men start with zero value in dating field- then increase in value as he ages & get more resources. But women begins with lot of value and depreciate as she ages. 18 or 20 is her prime, a man's prime is whenever he becomes rich and more assertive.

women classify men based on height and salary, however strong and independent they say they are. An 18 year old girl have high demand in dating field because men classify women based on their age and beauty because we don't need a woman to protect and provide for us. But women are not waiting in line to marry an attractive 20 or 18 year old men. They are looking for men at least above 25 and have good salary. because women no matter what they say , want someone they could feel they could depend on. Thats the truth.

So are you young, attractive, sweet virgin woman who have good family values and morals? You are the highest value woman any man can find. re-state://background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft, p

magiusX26 · Accepted Answer

first off, take emotional thinking completely out of the process and use only logic. compile what you actually want from that logic only mindset. use this as a mental framework for letting emotional thinking back in afterwards and as at least secondary to logical thinking, possibly have emotional thinking as 3rd and putting intuitional thinking in as second. you will have to train your mind to find physical, emotional, and mental attraction be more dictated by logical than emotional. try to pick qualities outside of the masses, making them more unique to you than societal norms. this points towards the extremely common 6s rule/s that most women go by. unless you and they plan on sharing the few (somethong like a few hundred thousand world wide for the billion plus women to share and that is before putting actual personal prefferences into the mix such as race or age range) men who fit that criteria. once you add on your personal prefferences, depending on where you live as opposed to where the men that fit your prefferences live and how far you are willing to travel, and if still using the 6s, you may have a handful (4 or 5 to maybe 30-ish) of men to actually attempt to get that likely you will be competing with a few hundred to maybe 10 thousand other women to get. keep in mind many women in that pool of women wanting said man will be putting out so he will likely be highly used and very unlikely to settle for one woman. all that still assumes he likes women at all, you or the others fit enough of his prefferences, and that he isn't somehow already taken (if he is willing to settle for just one) . people often hear that the 6s give about 10% to 20% of men as their option but once you refine that down with your personal prefferences, it typically becomes less tgan 1%, meaning for every 100 men in that base pool, less than 1 whole man will remain and again that number does not take into consideration that he too has a simular process to wade through for you to meet his standards which if was taken into consideration, would leave you somewhere around 1/100th of 1 man to choose from or around 0.01% of men. next is to learn to be happy with what you actually get.

virtual_girl · Accepted Answer

Depends what kind of relationship you're after, I'm going to answer assuming you want a man who will financially cover you and be faithful:

Cook him food, make him lunches, keep the house clean. This makes both him and you look good to others...

Additionally, don't embarress him and dress modestly. Don't post lewd photos online or go out drinking with other men etc. His reputation is everything.

Keep in shape.

Become proficient in skills like cooking, gardening, sewing etc. These skills save money and when a man sees you doing it is like the equivelent of us women watching a man chop wood.

Let him take the lead and be the man. Be submissive/ non-controlling. If you ask him to fix the gate, let him fix it and be grateful... Don't stand over him critiquing everything he does... Have faith in him. Furthermore, be his peace when he comes home not a dragon.

And finally, a bonus tip: make sure his stomach is full and balls are emptied before he leaves the house. Paired with all of the above, this point will guarentee him to not cheat on you.

As a basic rule, you should be doing things so that he can focus on work and reaching his full potential as a man.

Do this and you'll get the bag AND the ring. Nothing better than not having to work, spending time raising your kids and persuing all your favourite hobbies. Being a woman is awesome!

CubsterShura · Accepted Answer

Yes.

The first step is ironically related to the fact that your question just begs another question, what does it mean to be a high quality women to you? Subsequently, who is a high quality male? What makes him high quality?

Okay, now the second question is, what kind of relationship do you want? What kind of relationships have you gravitated towards your whole life and why? What are your red flags and green flags?

These questions take a lot of therapy, self-reflection and even experience to answer. I don't believe in being higher or lower than others, but I do believe in being ahead of others. Once you know what you want and why you want it, trust me, you are already ten steps ahead of everyone else because most people don't know what they really want.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Say what you mean, mean what you say, communicate effectively, and don't be self absorbed. If you can do those things, you will be leagues ahead of your competition.

ZackBan · Answer

For starters you gotta be the person you want to attract.
Meaning if it's a stable relationship you want you won't find it wearing a miniskirt drunk at a bar, all you'll find there is another drunk who liked the skirt and the legs underneath it.
But the complete opposite is equally problematic, if you're a prude who's very conservative and maybe too religious and actively complicate what should be simple interactions you'll drive men away.

It takes work but you need to build up your own sense of self worth, be positively attractive on the inside and outside as they both reflect eachother and know how to open up to a man but still make sure you spot any major red flags.

While men struggle to find willing partners women struggle from an excess of choice. Meaning you'll have multiple men intersted and you'll be tempted to go for the one who stimulates your primal tendencies but that one is not automatically the best option. If it's "quality" you're looking for then you need the man who was raised right and has also worked on himself to become a superior version of all positive male attributes.

It all sounds complicated but the beginning is simple, make small healthy choices and they will build-up into a healthy life which attracts healthy partners

MaazHussain · Answer

I can provide some general tips that may be helpful.

Know yourself: Before you can attract the right partner, you need to know yourself and what you want out of a relationship. Take the time to identify your values, interests, and goals, and be true to who you are.
Be confident: Confidence is attractive, and it's important to believe in yourself and your worth. This means taking care of yourself physically, emotionally, and mentally, and not settling for less than you deserve.
Communicate effectively: Communication is key in any relationship, and being a high-quality woman means being able to communicate your needs, wants, and boundaries effectively. This requires both listening and expressing yourself clearly.
Cultivate a positive attitude: Positivity and optimism can go a long way in attracting the right partner and maintaining a healthy relationship. This means focusing on the good things in life, practicing gratitude, and avoiding negativity and drama.
Invest in your personal growth: Being a high-quality woman means constantly growing and improving yourself. This can include learning new skills, pursuing your passions, and working on any personal issues or challenges that may be holding you back.

Remember that being a high-quality woman is not about conforming to any particular standard or ideal, but about being true to yourself, valuing yourself, and cultivating healthy relationships with others.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

1. Don't try to compete with men. Excel at whatever you want to do, but don't make t a competition.

2. Be honest.

3. Be punctual.

4. Keep your promises.

5. If you want a man to treat you like a queen, then you should treat him like a king.

6. Treat your body like a non-renewable resource. Respect it and take care of it.

7. Don't have sex wth every guy you think is hot. Don't get intimate wth a guy unless you are in a committed, monogamous relationship.

8. Once you do decide to have a sexual relationship, be an eager and enthusiastic partner.

9. Never dress like a slut.

10. Respect yourself. If you don't respect yourself, why should anyone else respect you?

caring__1 · Answer

A high quality woman is one who is considerate of others rather than focuses on her own sense of entitlement. She is respectful of differences rather than expecting others to conform to her ideal. The more consideration she gives, the more consideration she'll receive.

If you want people to notice you, make sure you know how you look from their perspective. Never assume what is or isn't attractive to you will be what others value. Make the most of your assets rather than attempt to be someone you're not. Covering up a lack of self-care with fancy hair, nails, makeup and clothing is similar to putting lipstick on a pig... which doesn't make that pig more attractive.

Weapon77 · Answer

Be healthy (mind and body), don't be a jerk (even better if you love taking care of people, kids, animals, etc.), dress how YOU want to (not how you think you are supposed to or how the other gals are) but put in effort (you want your guy to put in effort too, right?), do what you want (not what others want you to), and for crying out loud please just give a guy a clue what you want. Low quality gals play games and are confusing either on purpose or by accident. You can be subtle, but make it clear you want HIM (even if you haven't met him yet) and don't make it seem like you are with other guys while giving hints to the one. How are guys supposed to know you want them if you flirt with every guy? It's just not efficient. And good guys usually avoid girls who flirt around. You'll wind up attracting jerks by flirting with a ton of guys. And if the guy doesn't get the hint, just start getting touchy (within reason), give him a gift (like a book he likes), or something... anything.

Subarugirl · Answer

Be the kind of person you are trying to attract. You want an attractive, successful, integral loyal man, be a an attractive, successful, integral, loyal woman.

A relationship with a man should be like desert. It's good, it adds value, it's enjoyable and a luxury, not a necessity. Desert contributes to an already complete meal, it isn't the meal itself, and if it is, it's not healthy.

Be the meal, your relationships should be the desert.

Anonymous · Answer

The sad truth of the matter is, most women get triggered when somebody even suggest that they try to be high value, they all assume they are or that it doesn’t or shouldn’t matter.
but then, once these women get to the age where they wanna settle down, and no man wants them, because they have no value, they all complain and try to blame men

A high value female; does not expose herself online or in public for cheap attention. This is also retroactive because the Internet never forgets.

A high value female does not have a body count that is in the double digits.

A high value female does not do shit test or dumb games, she will act like an adult, and not an entitled child.

A high value female has never, and will never cheat.

A high value female does not do drugs or party.

If you want to truly be a high value female, you must dress and act like it.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Love yourself. Know what you want. Be logical and try to also match what it is that you want. Have your own shit together so that he doesn’t think you need/want his assets. Be respectful. Don’t submit but be submissive enough to make him think he's the dominant one. Don’t settle but don’t be impossibly unrealistic either. Don’t waste anyones time, especially your own.

Sparks32 · Answer

A Quality iwomen is kind, looks feminine and over all just pleasant to be around. Most men with standards will run for the hills when they see a woman that's a feminist that can never be pleased, manipulative and doesn't care about what a man wants to do. If the man you want is 1 in 20 000 (which is a man that ticks all the average women's box's) you better be hot as hell because he most likely won't want marriage anyway.

DaveToo · Answer

Wow. Um, sure! First of all, you have to be the product of the single most handsome man and most beautiful woman. Then they have to be both independently wealthy. That way if they split you'll have a chance and an inheritance worth a shit.

Now that we have that out of the way, high quality is something that you live, not something you're given. You decide what YOUR standards are and live them. How you see yourself is how others will see you.

loveslongnails · Answer

The first thing you need to do is figure out what you REALLY want in a relationship. Then ask yourself " Is this what a good man wants in a woman?" If you're sure that it is, then BE that person through and through. When you are, you will draw the person you want right to you.

Tomisworthless · Answer

Women want high value men that will cheat on them, they don’t want a man who will commit to her 100% she would rather chase the guy who gives her 10% of himself meanwhile fucking other women because why wouldn’t he he’s high value and has the pick of the lot

hismave · Answer

Love yourself
Respect your partner
Do not depend on your partner
Spend time with then
Keep your words
Be open
Be independent yet willing to recieve help
Love your body
Never give room for disrespect
Be honest
Be kind
Bring something to the table

Anonymous · Answer

Here's a hint: it has nothing to do with your education, career, income or being an "independent woman".

It seems like most women today judge their own value based on the same criteria they use to judge a man's value. Sorry but those things do not make you high value to men.

Billlewis · Answer

To accomplish your goal, the number one thing you must do is to become a mean, arrogant, demanding bitch goddess. That's easily the best way to make guys fall at your feet.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Be respectful in how you treat, talk and think about others, about things, about experiences, about issues, about feelings and about yourself. This will make any girl 60% more attractive.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Love yourself l, know what you want, strive for success l, and treat your man like you would want to be treated.

the_bruh · Answer

If you understand how both a woman's and a man's mind works. You'd be really great at dating anyone you want.

es20490446e · Answer

Simple:

- Be a nice person, that expresses their boundaries clear but constructively.

- Take care of your person and life in general. Blame nobody else, but take charge yourself.

- Expect life to bring good to you.

thegreenyogi · Answer

Never settle and don't stop until you find exactly what you want in a person and from a relationship.

Guy13 · Answer

No i don't but I would like to have all that defined into something tangible? Theoretical is nice but...

noohair · Answer

Well, since time travel is not possible, you are a 40 year old person, and you have know clue what men want. I would say, put down the phone and start thinking for yourself. But I doubt that you could do that.

Jdjfjcjj · Answer

Be beautiful,  feminine,  be emotionally intelligent, faithful, and few to none sexual partners.

genericname85 · Answer

Uh oh XD are your implying a girl can be low value? feminist sjws are gonna hate you.  Good to see that there's some girls that can go beyond telling guys how they should be XD

Justneedtokno · Answer

The best way to achieve this is to first know what you want. Do the self care work. Take on a mentor.

rabbitzzz · Answer

Learn to suck dick of the man you want. Its easy.

Sasha0426 · Answer

I wish I knew. I learnt men are very hard to please.

peedy · Answer

What about a good hard working man that wants to be loved for who he is and not how big his wallet is

OddBeMe · Answer

Is there actually a standard?  There’s religious, there’s liberal, there’s uptight conservative…all our “high quality” for the right guy.

Anonymous · Answer

No idea... but if things work out for me... then it was just being persistent and kindness.

Anonymous · Answer

You're either born a quality woman or you're not. Someone count tell you how to be one. 😆😆😆

Deserter · Answer

Be hot, be nice, be supportive, it's not that hard.

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

Yes but I’m not a woman 😂 I’d run circles around modern women tho

krin_m · Answer

Be genuine, self-confident and emotionally strong.

Anonymous · Answer

Need more context, it depends on the man she wants, not all men are high quality or expect the same from women.

weysally · Answer

tried to PM you, bu t private,

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Don't be a twat and have standards.

msc545 · Answer

So are you. In this case semantics are what count.

Manuel2 · Answer

Yes but that is our secret

TheAfrikan · Answer

The shortcut I guess is being yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

Ditch emotions for a start

Mayo503 · Answer

Laugh 😂

Djaay · Answer

Lmao...

EaterPeter · Answer

You?

Anonymous · Answer

Yeap

LoyalBestfriend · Answer

Yes I know

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