My friend seems obsessed with me?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend whose 25 years old

She will have her people drive by my house to see if I'm there?

She seems to always know what I do like when I deleted snapchat or deleted and blocked a mutual friend of ours.

she's keeping tabs on me and i dont like it.

She secretly takes photos of me and sends it off to whoever.

she's constantly blowing up my phone is I dont answer and always wondering if my posts are talking shit about her.

she's paranoid with others as well not just me. But the prior she does towards me as well and I'd really like space. she's creeping me out.

But why is she acting like this?

Updates

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She will also go to where I've recorded and places I'm at and show up to hang out... ask me to hang out the very last minute which I won't just jump up to go it's annoying

[Anonymous]

So be honest and tell her you need some space. Like I don’t understand why you’d willingly continue dealing with someone putting you through so much discomfort. It doesn’t even matter what your history before all this is if she’s being too much in present time.

[Asker]

I figure shed get the hint with me not replying back and giving space?
I dont like hurting peoples feelings

[Opinion Owner]

With some people you’ve got to vocally make that move, because she probably does notice you pulling back and as a result is clinging tighter. Meaning she won’t stop unless you tell her to. I know it’s uncomfortable, I’ve had to formally cut ties before and it sucks but you’ve gotta do it if you really want her to back off.

[Sam2021]

Holy moly she is stalking you
I wouldn't want my friend to do so why she insecure

[Asker]

Girl I have no effing clue

[Sam2021]

Get rid of her

[Wise4myage]

Wow, be careful around her, she sounds like a stalker.

[Asker]

She has 2 baby daddies and I dont think she's into girls...

[Wise4myage]

That’s good.

[Asker]

She can still be a stalker? I thought stalkers liked their victims

[Wise4myage]

Yes, just be careful