Was this innocent or not?

[Anonymous]

I had a photoshoot set up

My photographer texted my phone & gave me the wrong time to come to the studio.

I said that's not the right time. I'll come at 430.

She saw her mistake and said she can't even let me in until 430pm anyway as she has a short shoot at 4pm.

The next day she's calling me at 415 asking me where I am and that she was waiting outside for me.

I was going to arrive early but when she told me she couldn't let me in until 430 I was in no rush.

Now she's holding my photos hostage.

Just weird energy

[artisticallymiranda]

Yeah, something about the situation seems off. Did you pay a deposit? If so, holding your photos hostage… hm… could be worth looking into the courts!

[Asker]

I've put a deposit. And I'm supposed to wait 3-5 days to pick them out and then she will edit it more

[ShiftingMonke]

That's odd, have you already paid for the session and photos?

[Asker]

I've put a deposit. And I'm supposed to wait 3-5 days to pick them out and then she will edit it more

[ShiftingMonke]

That's weird, but until that time elapses, you are just gonna have to wait in limbo.
I do think her behavior is extremely odd though.

[Asker]

Right? I dont get it. A lot of females are like this with me too... weird af

[ShiftingMonke]

What do you mean by that? Are you saying women try to take advantage of you? Or that they try to arrange private photo sessions or arrange private moments with you? What kind of photo shoot was it anyway?

[Asker]

It was for a maternity shoot. I already told her dad will be with. And I brought my mom.
Its women in general. Women at the gym are weird. Women tend to get aggressive. White women with their physical boundaries with me and black women with their words

[ShiftingMonke]

That's very odd, something about your looks or behavior must be seen as threatening.

I think this needs a new question posted publicly with details to get to the bottom of it.

[Asker]

Alright