Girls, does a feminist guy melt your heart and increase your physical attraction towards him?

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Like for example, does hearing a guy say he's for abortion increase your attraction towards him, or does it turn you off?

Subarugirl · Accepted Answer

Honestly, I wouldn't give a guy who didn't believe that men and women should have equal rights the time of day. That being said, not being a misogynist male supremacist is the bare minimum of being just a decent human being.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I mean I appreciate a guy who cares about other people's rights, but that's not what feminism is about now. A guy calling himself a feminist is just weird.

coachTanthony · Answer

The fake feminist men trying to get into a girls pants works quite often. Beware feminists lol

Anonymous · Answer

This is like a “fake nice guy” but much much worse. Did you know Harvey Weinstein was a supposed “supporter” of feminism? He directed Kill Bill (while throwing Uma Thurman on the casting couch)

For a guy to act this way he was at best raised by a very abusive father who he watched abuse his mother and himself. Like he was locked away in some sort of rural cult compound in Utah where he observed a men abusing multiple women and preaching sick and twisted theology or something. Then and only then could I see a legitimate reason for any western man to have genuine intentions of being a “modern feminist”

The rest of them are just sneaky betas. They are so desperate for female attention that they will throw other men under the bus via posturing to get female attention. Sadly it works sometimes but not all women are that stupid.

Anyway those guys are the worst of the worst. They know damn well that what they are saying is unfairly harming other men. But they are sociopathic. They just don’t care just as long as it’s helping their own selfish ambitions. Their true intentions are just for one thing and one thing only. Worst kind of hypocrisy.

As for the other side of the coin. The so called “incels”. More often than not these guys were raised by controlling/abusive mothers. They usually have a past incident where they got burned badly by a woman and never got closure. They were also raised to believe women are delicate and “special”. They really believed it at one time. Then they suffered some brutality in dating due to their naivety.

Those guys just need a good woman to break down their walls and give them hope again. But they are usually caught up in a vicious cycle because they got unresolved past wounds and don’t trust women out of fear of being burned again.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

How many times have we "reset the clock?" Look up the term... Feminist men have a reputation... and reputations have reasons. It's actually one of the few 4th wave feminist arguments I actually agree with. Those dudes are not your friends ladies. Look up "nice guy syndrome" to know what I'm talking about.

melanieeeB · Answer

Not really... someone who doesn't hate on women and supporters us the same as he supporters men is for me normal and the bare minimum to ask for lol (Probably cause most people around me do that already) but a guy hating on women and "women belong to the kitchen" type does immediately turn me off tho

Anonymous · Answer

The problem with this question is you are talking about "feminist guys" and "guys making feminist comments", but you are not specific about what you mean by that.

If you are talking about guys being supportive of women and women's issues, or about the nebulous notion of "gender equality", then don't just call if "being a feminist", because none of that is attributable to modern feminism.

The reason most men hate modern feminism is because it is, at it's core, anti-male and gynocentric in the extreme. There is nothing about modern feminism that is in any way related to gender equality.

Finchie40 · Answer

I would hope that would turn her off , How people can live their lives knowing they killed their own baby is fucked up to me , like how does someone go through life knowing they murdered their own baby? Whether she was raped or can’t afford raising the child or the timing is bad , put the baby up for adoption but don’t kill it , it’s not the baby’s fault , abortion is murder to me , I’m sorry, I don’t see how people can smile in life knowing they killed their own innocent baby.

ManOnFire · Answer

I doubt it. I have never known a woman who had her panties melt from a guy being a white knight. I even tried that in my youth and the only thing you get is a woman who just thinks you're a gentleman or sensitive to women's issues, but they don't actually want to date you.

Pyrofox · Answer

A man trying to fight for women rights just sounds like an elaborate way of calling the women they are fighting for weak. Just comes off as a back handed compliment to the entire female gender regardless of if they are transitioning to male or not. Male feminists to me just come off as the most egotistical back handed mindset on the face of the earth. As its pretty much calling women so lazy and worthless that they can't even fight their own fights. A man has to just pick up the slack.

sheenagwapa · Answer

i am against abortion. i wanna know his reasoninh behind supporting abortion before it's a turn off for me

alice55 · Answer

Guys making feminist comments turn me off

Guy13 · Answer

Have you not learned we will tell you anything to get in your pants. We will not even tell you that  we do not have a boyfriend  and pour on the Neo-liberalism just to have something to laugh about after match with Makers.

Part2603 · Answer

What are your thoughts Bethany? What was the read of your crush that didn't work out? Do you think he was a male feminist? Or was he Chad Thundercock?

FreyaRed · Answer

Depends on context. If they try to deflect the talk into specific direction to promote themselves with their believe in noble ideals, it's game over for him.

mobiusforniner · Answer

A smart woman knows that if a guy is doing this, he is trying too hard. Women want someone genuine.

abc3643 · Answer

You should have added a button so guys could see the results.

LickwidSkie · Answer

Can you make it so I can see the poll results without voting?

LiamJHayden · Answer

In my experience most women dislike a guy who pretends to agree with them in an attempt to get with them far ore than they do one who just disagrees with them.

clampfan101 · Answer

If I were a girl and a guy who wanted me told me he supposed abortion I think I’d freak out a little…

Anonymous · Answer

Obviously 1000 times better than a non-feminist guy.

Still-alive · Answer

posting just because im curious about the answers lol

Sabretooth · Answer

he's just trying to get in her pants. no man would consider himself a feminist if he wasn't desperate.

OddBeMe · Answer

Just for definitions sake: Feminist Guy: sees you as an equal.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Why wasn’t there any option for the men that wanted to see the poll results?

SnowedIn · Answer

This is a thing?

RavVid · Answer

Just want to see the poll results

msc545 · Answer

Nobody finds simps attractive.

Sweetener_ · Answer

Male feminists make me cringe...

boobliker · Answer

I a guy so don't know

Preeti161101 · Answer

Really

In_Trance · Answer

LMAO

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