Girls, Do you agree that women’s lives are drastically easier/better when they stay in shape and put much more effort into how they look?

[Mybeachlife8888]

I know this is unpopular and controversial, but I see so many women who would be absolutely beautiful if they just worked out more and tried to present themselves better. Say what you want, but I can almost guarantee most of these women would land better jobs, be treated better, and just live a happier life if they put a little more effort into themselves and their image.

[Anonymous]

Pretty privilege is real and I think anyone would be generally happier with life if they took care of themselves. So yes.

[Mybeachlife8888]

With that being said, would you say that you value your appearance and stay in shape, and put a lot of effort into presenting yourself as best as possible?

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t have a super high self esteem and I’m no supermodel. I don’t go to the gym but I intend to when I am nearer to one. I do like dressing nicely when given the chance and looking my best, though, unless I’m too exhausted or distracted to care.

[Mybeachlife8888]

Yeah i don’t think women have to try to be super models…. That’s not what I mean. I just think some women will try so many different things that they think will earn them more money or make them happier…. When I truly do think that staying in really good shape and putting more effort into image can do just that.

[Opinion Owner]

Gotcha
Yeah, I’m certain men have it better when they do the same, but I feel in a way that a woman’s looks and appearance are more heavily judged in general. So I would also question why this is, if for example, there’s a position for an office job and the woman who is fit and dresses nicely might be treated differently or perhaps sexualized more than a male under the same circumstances, rather than be analyzed and valued for their work performance or smarts? I may be wrong, just something to think about

[Mybeachlife8888]

I just think sex sells, and beautiful women are more sought after than beautiful men. Hard working men, intelligent men, and confident men are more desired than beautiful men

[Opinion Owner]

Fair enough. I think it comes down to confidence on a personal level, too. I definitely know people who are conventionally attractive but they don’t get much attention because they are shy or lack self-esteem, and they do not receive the opportunities a more confident, self-assured individual would. I honestly think that people who value themselves, not in an overt way, will naturally achieve success because they “envision” it?

[Mybeachlife8888]

I agree. Mind shooting me a DM?