Is a woman's best years in her 30s and 40s?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It’s funny that it’s men, always men, who say dating is easy for women in the teens and 20s. Like sir wtf do you know about it? For real. Dating absolutely sucks in your 20s too. I don’t have a single friend who’s not cried and said the same stuff as the women made examples in this video. Men lie, cheat, manipulate, make zero effort after they feel they ”got” you. It’s clearly not age related and it’s also not related to the mans looks, status or income either. The most nerdy, shy, geeky looking guy ever texted me a half naked pic of him in bed yesterday asking to meet up. This after literally crying to me a a while back that he can’t find a girlfriend and that that all he wants is to settle down. He after years of searching found a girlfriend he even lives with and now he clearly thinks he’s the shit trying to cheat on her. I’ve seen friends be with the most average looking and even ugly looking seemingly good angentlemen turn out to do terrible shit to friends you’d never expect from them. No red flags, not even when looking at it from an outside persoective. Weird ass men who can’t behave on dates (but seem completely fine when talking online), creepy older men who get butthurt because you don’t want them and claim ”age doesn’t matter”, ”age is just a number” and that you should ”give him a chance” all while stating that he’s only looking for women 10-25 years younger than himself and when pointing that out you have them go on a rant about how women are so stuck up and this and that. When in a relationship it all starts out well and then he stops making any sort of effort. Most of them do nothing or little around the house, don’t do their share of taking care lf the kids (because no, you’re not ”helping” when it’s your own kids or house) and stille xpect you to work outside the home, pay 50-50, look good for him and be down to have sex whenever he feel like it. Basically looking for a mom bit who he can fuck. No thanks. Dating is shit and I’ve stopped doing it. It’s a shit show and you have to be crazy, desperate or very naive to continue doing it. I’m fine never being in a relationship again if it’s going to come to that, because these men out there are not worth it. And yes, you as a man will tell me how wrong I am, how we’re all just dating the wrong men or have bad luck, that we should settle for a 15 year older misogynistic lazy bum, how our eggs run out, how we hit a wall, that we can enjoy cats and misery, that we will chsnge our minds and blah blah blah. It obviously bothers you a lot that women won’t pick you and actually would even prefer to stay single than be with you. You should contemplate what men are doing to make women feel like it’s better to just remain single or continue to date than to be with you and most other men because no, it’s not because we think we’re goddesses who deserve a multibillionaire super model. Men are so dramatic aren’t they? ”Women don’t want me so they’re all delusional and looking for something that completely unrealistic and they will be ”left over” and be eaten by their cats”. It’s also funnt how it’s always men who claim women age like milk and men like wine. Lol yeah dude keep telling yourself that while all the younger women reject you, you lose your hair, grow a pot belly and become bitter. The average age gap in marriages is 2 years. Women don’t want much older men, but why not if they’re like fine wine? Yeah you think about that 😂

[MzAsh]

I’ve enjoyed my 30s most by far. Married life and money, living on the beach, chefs kids! But, I’m just going to say it because it needs to be said: a lot of girls in their 20s are foolish, and they make a lot of stupid mistakes. Their standards are much too low and they put up with way too much bs and it causes them a lot of headaches. Ask any woman over 30 and she’ll tell you she regrets not minding red flags and all the shit she allowed to happen around her while in her 20s.

[MzAsh]

I meant chef’s kiss, not kids. Another reason why married life is great in our 30: no kids!

[exitseven]

you make a lot of sense.

[Pegases]

I think this assumption is usually made because women tend to base their own value on how physically attractive they are, which tends to fade, especially for women that don't take care of themselves in their youth, at or around thirty. That being said, women tend to increasingly mature at that age as well. Whats interesting is that even though it's been said that women mature faster than men, I dont really think that's true for most women. It seems to me that women mature as a result of that perceived loss of value, at or as they approach thirty. That being said, women can certainly age gracefully, and I think it's a good thing for women to believe that, just as I believe it's beneficial for men to also embrace the fact that we become more valuable in the dating market as we become more established over time.

[exitseven]

I think a woman can still be hot into her 50s. I see plenty of women at the gym I work out at that are older in their 40s and 50s that are in good shape. They are also more mature and rational and can talk about more than just what happened on The Bachelor.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[MementoMori777]

If they aren't Karens by that time then women are still datable and lovable at that age, it just might become harder for them mostly if their standards are too high because I'm sure there's women that age but never lower their standards

[HighValue]

Only if she wants to be used for casual sex because at that age, that is likely her only option besides having a low quality desperate man.

Any good quality man that wants a family will have no interest in women that age.

[Anonymous]

Stop being brainwashed by what you see online. It is rarely accurate.

[Asker]

I am just asking a question. I made no statements.

[Apple1996]

I sure hope so cuz my 20s are sucking

[wittymilf]

Hi :)

[Adam1978]

No in her 20s.

[Anonymous]

Probably 20s.