Was it really that bad?

[chicosuave]

a girl i hanged out with told me that she "felt like the vibe wasn't right" so she didn't want to hang out again. at least she was honest then me being ghosted. and i told her i appreciated her honesty cuz really girls are masters of ghosting. She didn't want to be friends so why is that? i didn't do anything wrong or say anything wrong. We laughed a lot so i dont understand. I did feel like by the end she was overwhelmed of talking so I don't know.

[Anonymous]

She may not feel like you actually want to be friends, and no offense but I don’t blame her. Nothing to do with you at all, it’s just in most cases he will still try to flirt if he feels there’s a good vibe, and not keep it platonic: I’ve tried accepting the friendship route several times and the dude can never actually stick to it. So I’m sure you’re a nice guy, she’s just playing it safe.

[chicosuave]

Makes sense. I was a bit touchy with her then I gave her a 5 second hug in the end when I dropped her off. When that happened I did see like she freaked out and she immediately got off the car and walked away quickly. I think that turned her off. Well not gonna lie she is hot so I couldn't resist but to hug her. But yeah sucks to lose her. She then told me she had a boyfriend. I don't know what was her intentions with me since she fought a month to hang out with me.

[Opinion Owner]

Knowing she has a boyfriend, don’t you think that makes a lot more sense? I’m in a relationship and I don’t make any make friends that I didn’t already have before I met him. But on top of that if you were touchy and that long hug then I’m sure it didn’t give off friendship vibes. She’s respecting her and I have to commend her for that.

[chicosuave]

Yup. I don't blame. Thanks for your response. It made me understand the female perspective

[chicosuave]

Typo. I don't blame her

[molonski2]

Its simply wasn't to be , this sht " Id love to still be your friend " , its just bllshit , fortunately I woke up to that when I was very young and always used to say " thanks , but I have plenty of friends already " , Its far far better that she was honest , and either circumstances didn't allow , or it simply wasn't right , either way it doesn't matter.

[Anonymous]

Well don't give this much importance to girls always have back up plans...