Escort girl I've seen 15 times cancelled because she couldn't be bothered. Ignored my calls. I'm going to out her to her mom. Good idea?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

you think they don't already know she has a dirty side? if she lives at home still seem hard to believe there entirely unaware something is up with her. if she's an escort be out at odd times , wearing sexy unfits and likely shower a lot once home.
but hard to say i recall this girl who worked at our pub , her seemed nice but had a wilder side , her parents didn't know certain things about her and guys she had dated/slept with so i suppose they might not know the whole story if she's tried to keep it secret but still?

[Asker]

I know for a fact not a single person knows.
She told me herself if her mom found out it would destroy her life.

[Asker]

She never shows her face in profiles.
But I know her name, found it out.

[Asker]

Basically she'd be disowned.

[Opinion Owner]

but pretty common for escorts to keep things low key , they honestly have no idea she has a wild side? does she have tattoo's or piercings? what does she dress like ?

what is she a nursing student during the week but an escort on weekends?

[Asker]

She told me she is scared people will find out. She was a University student.
She worked in a cocktail bar after.
Her mom still thinks she works there.
Been a prostitute for 3 months, had sex with 300 men.

[Asker]

I was always nice to her, treated her with respect.
We talked and had a laugh.
But I guess she only sees money.
That's why I want to out her to her mom.
I'm shit to her.

[Opinion Owner]

i had a girl do that to me , she was a server at my pub , always nice to her , talked to her , gave her endless attention , we seemed to have a real connection but in the end she didn't seem to care and she disappeared for months when her job ended at end of last summer , i didn't see her again till st patricks day at a bar in another city and she acted like i didn't even exist and didn't even say hi or come near me. she made lots of money when she worked there last summer , don't know if she ever plans to come back here

[Asker]

She will regret this.
I'm going to make sure everyone in her life knows that she's a prostitute.

[Opinion Owner]

i doubt no one in her life knows about this , if she's been doing it for a while. at that age often known someone has a wild side although being an escort is perhaps less common than being a party girl at college who sleeps around a bit

surely she was planning to tell them at some point anyways , how could she reasonably expect to keep it hidden forever

[Asker]

Nope, nobody.
Her family is religious.
She's 23 and only been a prostitute for 3 months.
She never shows her face on photos.
But she has a very distinctive body.
Her family would know its her.
Basically she is built like a Victoria's secret model.

[Opinion Owner]

either way i'm sure she has an emergency plan in the back of her mind if they find out something is up with her. she might claim she was forced into the industry by a pimp or guy she knew , with threats or extortion. and felt she had no other choice even though she knew it was wrong and that she had tried to get out but couldn't or they'd hurt her

[Asker]

Very much doubt it.
She's 23, doesn't think about much but smoking cannabis.
Honestly, she'd probably kill herself.

[Opinion Owner]

why don't you this contact another escort from the same agency? its not like you were in a relationship with this one. maybe she felt you were becoming too obsessed with her and wanted you to move on to someone else

yeah i know some girls like that so weird they seem to have everything going for them but all they care about is smoking pot when there not working

[Asker]

Because it takes a long time to get to know someone.
I invested effort in someone who was normal, new to the industry.
I've been with lots of escorts, this one was different.
We'd laugh and chat about everything.

[Asker]

She went independent, this was the first time I was going to meet her independently.
She wasn't playing by the agency rules.
She was tired and couldn't be bothered.
Instead of confrontation she choose to ignore.

[Asker]

Because now she's independent she can just cancel anytime she likes.
She had a reputation for being unreliable at the agency, not turning up.
Not telling them.
Anyway she got sacked from the agency because the boss found her independent profile.

[Opinion Owner]

did she say that she didn't want to see you again ever? or this just a break until she's less tired. is also possible she has plans during the Easter weekend that don't involve being an escort so might be better to try her again after

i realise you've had sex with her but you need to remember that using an escort is not in any way the same as being in a relationship and even if you have feelings for her its just a job to her.

[Asker]

Until tomorrow.
not sure she was tired, more like hanging out with her friend, party animal friend.
I had already had a shower, shave.
I was on my way to her, like 15 minutes away.

[Asker]

She sort of gave me a option to see her today but not give a good service or see her tomorrow.
She thought I'd say tomorrow, but I said today.
I continued to her place, she wasn't there.
So obviously I think she'd already gone anyway.
I text her no reply.
Rang her 10 times no reply.
I guess she ignored me, doubt she be in touch again.

[Opinion Owner]

how did you figure out what her real name and identity was? as it sounds like she went to great lenghts to conceal it from people. but i've found girls online that i was at bars so its not necessary impossible to find someone on little info

i want to get back at the girl i knew from pub who mistreated me but more thinking of buying another girl a drink in front of her or talking to one of her co workers instead of her if she ever comes back there i don't know if she will but she had worked there since 2018 and 1 of her friends still works there

[Asker]

Basically, I see her Instagram name on her phone.

[Asker]

I've probably seen her more than anyone else.
15 times in 2 months.
I liked her personality and talking to her, not just sex.
I guess I'm just a number, money to her.
Like shit, nothing.
That's the reason I want to punish her.

[Opinion Owner]

my honest opinion on this , think something similar happened to me with girl from pub she just started to feel i was too obsessed and acting like her boyfriend. feeling this girl might be the same and be ok with the occasional visit by you but your starting to get too obsessed and obviously want more than she's willing to give. have you ever suggested doing things like dating or time together that isn't sexual?
i know its tough to accept that this isn't real as you've physically been with this person but it was never in anyway a real relationship

[Opinion Owner]

as i said she's starting to feel you want more than she's offering as an escort , 15 visits does seem way more than an average customer

i want to punish the girl from pub i knew but not ruin her life just annoy her enough that she comes to her senses and talks to me again like normal if i ever see her again there

[Asker]

It's nothing to do with that.
She was willing to see me tomorrow.
But don't you think if you've seen someone 15 times in 2 months.
Always treating them nicely with respect, in a gentle way too.
You'd think they wouldn't just cancel you like your nothing.

[Asker]

Ruin her life because she loves money that's what.
Her own words really.
£2000 a week at 23 years old

[Opinion Owner]

the girl i knew at the pub was making a lot of money too , not sure how much but that place was always busy and prices expensive so tips must of been good. but in the end she didn't seem to care much about me. odd that place is closed this week for renovations so i don't think i'll get a chance to see her Easter weekend either , seems like i never will

i treated the girl at pub nice too and tried to build a genuine connection with her there but she just didn't see it that way. maybe she just felt she could never date me based on how i knew her from real life. i'd imagine being an escort would be even worse , she's had sex with all these different men but could never like date one as all they saw in her was sex not an emotional or personal connection

[Asker]

Thing is I spent more time talking to her than sex.
Talking about everything, about me.
Yeah she knows everything about me, she said she found me on Facebook by accident from a like.
When the truth is i haven't liked anything on Facebook for years.
She searched me i recon.

[Opinion Owner]

she likely wondered who you were , people look others up on facebook cause there curious right.

i realise my situation is not the same as yours but i was still forced into an unfair reality where i was forced to pay money to see and talk to her there. as she wouldn't spend time with me outside the pub despite the fact we lived in the same small city , ( only 20,000 ) and like nothing to do so always bored out of my mind. so annoyed me endlessly to know this awesome girl from my hometown but not be able to do anything about it

your dealing with an unfair reality where you have to spend huge amounts of money to have sex with her , dating is expensive but not as pricey as high end escorts. your getting some of what you want but clearly not what you really want in the long term i suppose

[Asker]

Beautiful girl yes, tall slim.
In truth she looks like a victorias secret model.
Honestly.
But she's not high end.
She makes good money because she sees lots of people.
I've spent maybe £1500 on her.

[Opinion Owner]

a lot of girls under 25 look like a victoria's secret model when in a bikini or in bed , that isn't necessary that uncommon.
i'm not sure how much i spent on the girl at the pub but all those visits even at only $10 or $20 each would add up. i spent a fair bit of money at that place last summer when she was there

she wasn't high end either , good looking , i'd imagine she'd look good if she did a photo shot. but i didn't even get to have sex with her , we did drinks at the bar a few times but can't think of anything physical we ever did together there.

i don't know what the future holds , sometimes its much harder to find something real than you realise. girls now days care more about pot and money than anything else and unless your an athlete or well off some won't even give you the time of day

[Asker]

This one definitely was 10/10 in looks.
5'9 55kg blonde hair.
Yes only money she likes, in her own words.
Money is everything to her.
£20000 in 3 months I recon she earned.
Didn't pay tax either.

[Asker]

She's earning as much as a doctor.

[Opinion Owner]

i don't know how much girl at pub made over the summer but likely a lot but she had to pay tax

have you ever though that maybe she was just testing you to see how you'd react if she delayed sex or didn't agree to it and she got freaked out by your reaction?

its pretty common for girls to test guys , they like to do that and some of them are so subtle you wouldn't even be aware its a test

[Asker]

I don't think so.
I think I'm nothing to her.
When she was at the agency she had to play by the rules.
11am until 8pm.
Now independent she can do as she please.
23 years old, lazy can't be bothered.
Tired just quit.
Invited to hang out with best friend, just cancel you.
Selfish I'd say.

[Asker]

She's flaky, if she doesn't want to work she just doesn't turn up and tells nobody.

[Asker]

Greed got the better of her.
The agency sacked her because she secretly tested out going independent.
The agency boss found her profile and sacked her.
This was today.

[Opinion Owner]

she doesn't sound like someone you really want in your life , i don't know what else to say. its too bad so many girls turn out just like her ( perhaps not actually escorts ) but just about the money and pot.

the girl i knew was a highly skilled bartender , could do drinks fast and effectively in a busy environment but only wanted to work during the summer , didn't even have a job when at school despite the fact there is like 20-30 bars/restaurants near her school some of which are desperate for staff

i've read that she was likely more selfish than i realised and that might explain some of her behaviour towards me

[Asker]

I'll never here from her again, once you become 'crazy 'with a escort, in my case ringing her 10 times they become scared and block or ignore you.

[Asker]

I do know when I tell her I'm going to reveal her to her mom and family she will cry and beg.
I'll do i anyway, serves her right.

[Opinion Owner]

how do you even know who her parents are? it sounded like she was very secretive. i've never even meet or seen the parents of the girl from pub. i know there names but wouldn't even know who they were if i was standing beside them at a store in my homecity

i agree your seen as too obsessed and she isn't really interested in continuing with this situation as you clearly crossed the line the other day

[Asker]

From social media.

[ZanPiece]

Maybe it's your nasty personality and your attitude that she owes you anything more than what you pay her for. Can't even pay girls to pay attention to you or like you and it's their fault your so repulsive to women? Boo hoo she hurt me feelings so now I'm telling on her! Grow up a real man would not throw a tantrum and move on. Wanting to ruin her life and out her is not a good way to seem attractive to other women it just tells women to stay away from you at all costs because you get vindictive at any sense of a slight towards you.

[Anonymous]

Only if you want her pimp to visit you and take you outta commission

[Asker]

Man, she doesn't have a pimp.
She's like a normal everyday girl.
Kind of lazy really, hence why she cancelled me and ignored the calls.
After seeing her twice a week for the last 2 months that's how she acts.

[Opinion Owner]

Boyfriend, father, brother even her if she has a piece

[Asker]

No boyfriend.
Do you understand, nobody knows.
Father isn't here, ran off to the Philippines.
Think I'll tell him anyway.
Brother, yeah told me she's close to him, he'll know too.

[Opinion Owner]

Your funeral, well if they leave enough to bury

[Asker]

?
Not mine, her maybe.
She's soft.
She'd probably kill herself.

[Opinion Owner]

Nothing to bury then be an acid vat job

[Asker]

She doesn't have a pimp
But I do think if everyone knows she'd kill herself. Maybe.

[Opinion Owner]

After sending you to hell first

[Asker]

No pimp.
She's soft as shit.
Hence why she took the cowards way in ignoring my calls.
Anyway revealing her means she probably kill herself.

[Opinion Owner]

Then her brother will kill you and we'll I know brothers we don't do that quickly

[Asker]

I don't really care.
That's life.

[Opinion Owner]

Enjoy it because it's the most you'll even feel, guy I knew pulled a guys teeth out for his sister, pliers one by one let him live so he'd spend decades eating soup

[Asker]

That will be difficult, I'll have already topped myself before then.

[Opinion Owner]

See that's the smartest thing you've said here

[Asker]

Anyway she's not going to see me again now.
After I ring her 10 times, she think I'm crazy now probably.
She's never seen me not nice.

[Asker]

No point, Mark my words she's not texting me anymore.

[Mitchikko16]

This has to be a Joke right. no way you think this is right

[Agape93]

@PrettyPriya

[PrettyPriya]

That will get her to return calls for sure, won't it? 😑

[Asker]

She apologise this morning, make it up to me.
Then nothing for 5 hours.
Really can't be bothered, she's lazy

[Agape93]

He's been trolling escort complaints and revenge shit for a while now. Pay him no mind

[Asker]

I'm not a troll, this girl is real.. I think it would always end this way because the nature of her job.
She only likes money nothing else.

[Agape93]

I wasn't talking to you, be quiet. Anyways, pay the troll no mind