Why she do not block me even I asked for it?

[Anonymous]

I have talked with a girl for some time, thing went i would say on average. Sometimes she initiated conversation sometimes me. After couple of months I decided its time to tell her that I would like her to be my girlfriend. Obviously I got rejected ("I don't feel the same, bla bla") and was offered to be really good friends. Well I accepted that, because I really wanted to at least keep her in my life. But from that point we kinda stopped any interaction, I was the only one who tried to start at least a friendly chat, but in response I got only one word answers or "ghosting", but she was friendly if we meet somewhere irl. As hard as I tried to move on, every single time when she posts something these feelings inside of come back. So once again I decided (maybe alcohol in me) to confront her and say that I still love her and can't forget her and asked maybe she can help me by blocking me, because I can't do it by myself neither can live like this anymore. But once again she left me on seen and couple days later she is once again very first person to see my social media updates. Why she is acting like this?

[ManOnFire]

First thing to know: women almost never mean it when they turn you down but offer to still be friends. It's one of their biggest lies. They have no intention of ever being your friend, it's just what they think they should say as a sweeter closing to their rejection letter.

You saw this for yourself when you said you would still try to chat with her but she was basically giving you one-worders and ghosting. That alone should've let you know that you needed to stop reaching out. When a woman knows you like her a lot and you keep talking to her, especially when she's not interested, it empowers her to be cruel and treat you as if you are at her mercy. This is why you should never keep trying to talk to her. For any reason. You give her power and deplete yourself.

You asked her to block you and she left you on Read after that. Assuming you didn't text her anymore afterwards, how do you know she didn't block you? Also, her looking at your social media stuff really fast doesn't necessarily mean anything either. A lot of nutty girls out there will block you on one thing but still watch you on another.

I think the best thing to do is get yourself together and move on from her. The more you want her and try to reach out, the more you give her power over you and make yourself look sad and desperate. Don't worry about why she's looking at your updates fast. If she really wanted to be in your life and love you, she would've been when you confessed you like her. Move on from that, my guy.

[Asker]

I know she didn't block me, because we still are friends on fb and follwing each other on other media. Also we have some friends in common. Well i had a conversation this weekend with one of them and he said that everytime i tried to reach out, it was not the right time. She either was with someone else or broke with short term boyfriend. Even then I confessed to her mind was with other guy.

But yea I understand what u said to me and I want to move on and that pm maybe was unnecessary, but i tried to get myself a hand from her cuz i still can't block her on my own and want to keep doors open if she ever change her mind even probably she would never do that

[ManOnFire]

Your friend said it wasn't the right time for you to reach out every time you did. But was that ever an issue before? She is probably avoiding you. And she keeps in contact with a short-term boyfriend. She is definitely not a good candidate and I wouldn't leave any door open for her in the future at all.

I know you've got to get through your disappointment, but she's not worth it. Take time to heal and move on.

[boggboss]

She is acting like nothing u have the issue not her why should she block u when u want her blocked