Girls do you secretly love when your man is bad? Bad in a not so bad way?

[Finchie40]

I am convinced that you girls’ need some drama in your lives , when a guy can keep you on your toes and leaves a question mark over your head , you girl’s love that shit, convince me that i am wrong cuz I know I am right

[DizzyDesii]

I mean not bad per say but yea if everything is all fine and dandy, sometimes we wanna spice it up a notch 🤷‍♀️

[Finchie40]

LOL exactly , I love you Des , maybe you and I should be together , I heard 2 Aquarius’s are great matches even though we never met and I never saw what you look like , you and I have so much of the same humor and we understand each other whether you want to believe it or not , You instantly make me smile and you are probably smiling right now as well while
Reading this lol But my experiences with girl’s this is what I have experienced with every girl I been with , You girl’s can’t just relax their is always some type of drama that needs stirred up , If your man is to happy and too sweet and kind you can only handle that for so long , if he is too bad and doesn’t give a fuck you can only handle it for too long , for a guy to keep a girl he needs to be both , sad but true lol

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao nah 2 aquarius can get along in terms of tag teaming a non-Aquarius in an argument. But dating would be a nightmare. We’d be at eachothers necks 🤣

[Finchie40]

That might be a good thing 😜

[DizzyDesii]

You know how i feel about age gaps 😂 My dad is 3 years older than you

[Finchie40]

Age is just a number , you know me

[DizzyDesii]

Nah age is not just a number lmao

[Finchie40]

The last thing I was going to ask ya was your age lol

[DizzyDesii]

My age has always been on my profile. Just turned 28

[Finchie40]

Perfect age for me honestly

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao be real, im prob your kids age 🤣

[Finchie40]

Then great you would get along with my kids just fine 😋

[Anonymous]

Only women with toxic tendencies. Trust me dude. I have 4 sisters and NONE of them are like this. Women that chase those types of guys simply don't even understand thier own toxicity.

[Summeroflove]

Ehhhhh….. Some girls are like that for sure. They’re questionable themselves. So I do my best to avoid them and they avoid me lol.

[prettypretty10]

no, i love sweet, reassuring men. boys who get me confused disgusts me. i feel so not valued and cannot be myself.. i ll just leave cause i hate feeling sad because of someone

[SeriouslyFunny00]

No. We love masculine, but not "bad". Some girls are just innocent to associate bad versus masculine. Some girls crave toxicity, because they're also toxic themselves.

[Finchie40]

Yea it seems I attract the toxic ones for whatever reason lol

[IAmAzzurra]

Bad as in cheating or being an a$$hole? No.
Bad as in daring? Yes. Naughty? Yes.

Leaving a question mark a question mark over a person’s head as in not knowing where you stand is a boring waste of time

leaving a question mark as in “why did he just do that” in a fun way. Absolutely

Everyone likes a person who is fun.
Adventurous is fun. Spontaneous is fun.
Mind games aren’t fun. Moody isn’t fun. It’s draining.

[IAmAzzurra]

Women loving “bad boys” has been taken out of context, in a way
Women love exciting men.

[19magic]

I think a bad boy in the bedroom would be great but then I think I'm too f**ked up up for a nice guy in the sack. But if a guy kept me waiting around and being rude etc that might work to emotionally manipulate me, but not sure if I'd stick around long for that. It doesn't sound great tbh

[lightbulb27]

depends on the woman. some do. It's mystery... some love mystery and suspense and stress. It's the opposite (wound) of what they wnt, which is security, love, undying commitment. Wounds work that way. Some spice is ok... too much makes one sick.

some can't stand those things.

nota girl, just experience. they don't want boring...

[Peter_Penetrator]

Dude here, speaking up for some of the ladies. Those same men have high self confidence and even though they can be “bad”, the ladies involved with them, feel safer with them than with a man that has little to no self confidence. These men also will not be so clingy. A woman with a clingy man, feels as “Touched Out” by them as a mother caring for her new born. Google Touched Out.

[Badkitty41]

No I don't like drama that's why I don't hang with chicks. I think your going after fur wrong chicks though cause not all of them like drama.. but I agree that most women are about drama

[Finchie40]

It seems every girl I have dated they love my personality and the way I treat them in the beginning , the same way I want to be treated. , but in time that all changes , they get bored of having the nice guy that treats them with love and respect that stays loyal and faithful to them and they start being mean and criticizing and act like I am too good to be true or some shit , and then they turn around and backstab me behind my back , I am not saying I am perfect , but based off of my experiences with girls’ this has been a consistent thing , so I pretty much had to become sort of a bad guy of not tolerating her shit and disrespect and making it clear to her that I won’t tolerate the disrespect, basically you want to treat me like shit I will treat you like shit , usually when the relationship gets to that point it’s a 50/59 chance on whether it will last or not , By me not tolerating her behavior and the way she treats me usually has her crawling back for more , When I use to just stay the nice guy and trust her with all my heart that’s when I got shit on

[TooHot2Care]

@Badkitty41 *takes ONE look at your profile pic*

HAHAHHAHAHHAHHAHHAHHAHAHHAHAHAAHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAH

[TooHot2Care]

@Badkitty41 3 hours later…..

[TooHot2Care]

@Badkitty41 BAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAAH AAAAH aaaah….. that was a good laugh.

[Badkitty41]

@TooHot2Care you got a problem PAL? Then deal with.. weirdo

[TooHot2Care]

@Badkitty41 I ain’t got no problem, FRIEND, what’s YOUR problem…? Maybe you should get over it! Goofball….

[Badkitty41]

What it comes down to is humans are never happy.. when it's hot we want it cool when it's cold we want warm.. (Also we want something we get it, we don't want it , we want something else, until someone picks up what we had then we want it again.) If you catch what I'm saying.. So don't give your all to someone who doesn't appreciate it. Sometimes the best people are the ones that have lost the most. This should be a no brainer here though... if they are richy bitches they are have entitlement issues and won't ever appreciate anything anyone does for them.. That's where the drama comes in.. and while pretty girls are good to look at most of them aren't good people. I think you would get less drama from a Tom boy girl that doesn't expect anything and can make do her self.. Drama is all in the people. Guys like what you described you as being are actually what chicks really want. but maybe since they want bad boy take control in the bedroom man handle the bitch show her bad boy.. don't take everything so personal either I would think. Bitches they come they go.

[TooHot2Care]

@Badkitty41 actual chills. *applause*

You still toxic tho, and I see through you. You’re evil, just like comic books.

[Badkitty41]

@TooHot2Care no I am not toxic but I might be like tasting a fine wine of sin... Intoxicant yes toxic not good for even me.. evil na.. maybe just a sinister as the one who might see so

[Anonymous]

No. I like a man that’s sweet and reassuring that I can trust is always going to be good to me since I am good to him. But I definitely don’t want to date a man that wouldn’t protect me either. My boyfriend makes me feel safe and I know he wouldn't hesitate to physically defend me or himself. If that is the kind of “bad” you mean then sure I guess.

[Justmeagain1]

Girls like that your man is a little crazy , women want to know that it’s in there if it needs to come out- weird but kinda a safety thing. Does that make sense

[FreyaRed]

In 95% of cases bad means stupid. Having a 50 cm thick police register is something stupid boys have, really bad boys invite police bosses to dinners.

[BrookeS]

I love it when they are bad in a bad way hehe

[Simslover92]

I liked a bad boy in my younger years and that got me nothing but heartbreak. Give me the good guy any day.

[DermalPunch]

I hate drama!!! Guys who make drama are bitches.

[Finchie40]

Most drama comes from bitches lol

[DermalPunch]

Bitches can be male or female. So I agree

[TooHot2Care]

Knock knock. I just got out of prison. You are both my bitches now. Don’t bother running cuz there is no escape.

[Finchie40]

LOL I am no one’s bitch and I won’t be running either , it will be my turn to go into prison lol

[TooHot2Care]

Okay, I see you choosing the hard way. By the by….. I bench press 315…. And I’m bulletproof. Good luck! 😘…..

[Finchie40]

LMAO props for benching 315 but being bulletproof is a little to far fetched lol

[TooHot2Care]

Ever watch Luke Cage?

[Finchie40]

No , isn’t Luke Cage a Mortal Combat character?

[TooHot2Care]

…… Yes. and as we all know, shooting Mortal Kombat characters is futile.

[Finchie40]

LOL well for whatever reason you want to try to make me your bitch , I am not going to let that happen without putting up a fight , and protecting myself , so I will do what I have to do to defend myself , you would do the same , so that’s where I stand for whatever reason lol

[TooHot2Care]

Resistance is futile.

Look.

I like ya.

I want ya.

We can either do this the easy way or we can do this the hard way.

His painful this is will be directly proportional to the way of which you choose.

[Finchie40]

LOL what do you want me for

[TooHot2Care]

Want ya so I can do one thing, and one thing only….*licks lips*…..

I’ve actually been trying to reach you about your cars extended warranty.

[Finchie40]

LMFAO

[TooHot2Care]

There is no escape! I’ll just find you again! We always just find you again! 🤣🤣🤣

[Finchie40]

Those damn extended warranty’s lol

[Pinay_ako]

Oh I love a bad boy for me only. But a good man.

[Anonymous]

Just like how some women secretly like it when a man “roughs them up” (slaps them up a bit along with barely consensual sex) these women will never admit it.

[Greenbins]

Dude you are so right.. I see this crap all the tine.. most girls love bad boys. . Good guys bore them..

Most girls will only fuck bad boys.

[Finchie40]

Exactly, girls’ have to be on their toes to wanna be off their toes lol

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Sure! I ain’t no girl, but love it when any gender is bad in a good way.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Bad as in badass maybe.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Well… I do love nice guys more.

[Finchie40]

In the beginning most girls do , but in time she tends to think he is too nice and gets bored of him and starts being interested in a bad boy , Girls’ seem to always want opposite of what they already have , cuz most girls’ are never satisfied lol, When the nice guy learns how to balance between good and bad she is more than likely going
To stick by his side , if he can’t balance it then she will be in bed with another guy before he knows it , , crazy to say , I ended up in bed with those girls’ most girls are this way , based off of my experiences and what I have witnessed with girls’, most long term relationships go through a dry spell , if nothing can be done to ignite the passion in that relationship then it’s more than likely going to take a turn for the worse , that’s usually when affairs come into play , For a guy to make his girl change her mind about spreading her legs to another guy , he pretty much has to ignite that passion again for her to come crawling back to him , and basically the only way he can do that , is by treating her like shit in a sense , making her realize that he will simply be ok without her by his side , distancing himself from her , making her chase him , if she doesn’t chase , then his job is to kick her to the curb where she belongs and go for the girl that’s bee. standing behind his girl , waiting to have a turn. What girls’ don’t realize is most men will not cheat on a girl that stays loyal and faithful to him and respects him and doesn’t deny him intimacy and affection, when a girl learns to remove her inner selfishness for her man , and makes her man her top priority , he is more than likely going to stay faithful to her , if he doesn’t then he is a piece of shit. But a good hearted man only wants his girl the girl he choose to be committed to , her job is to make him feel valued and wanted and appreciated, do not deny him intimacy and affection , that’s where most girl’s make that mistake , intimacy and affection is more

[Finchie40]

Important to a guy then it is to a girl , It’s just how we were made , So when a girl stops giving him that intimacy and affection that he is craving she is pretty much digging her own grave for that relationship to come to an end , cuz he is more than likely going to end up in bed with another girl. Just the way it goes

[Mariena_Anne92]

What kind of bad are we talking here by the way?

[Finchie40]

Basically not giving into her constantly, if she is upset at him for doing something she doesn’t like him doing , but he does it anyway basically and he doesn’t kiss her ass , pretty much makes him a bad boy to her eyes , Most girls bitch and complain about the littlest things like he didn’t put the toilet seat down , or didn’t take out the trash out like she told him to , or she gives him ultimatums and he just says whatever and walks away etc. He pretty Much makes it clear to her that she isn’t in charge , Girls love that shit , if they didn’t love it , then she wouldn’t be bitching and complaining , A girl that bitches and complains over little things to her man , is a girl that is in love with her man , for the most part , She is frustrated that she loves her man that much , When a girl goes silent and doesn’t bitch and complain at all , that’s when a guy should worry , Girls’ express their emotions way more that guys do , so if she isn’t expressing her emotions to him , and taking it out on him , then she is no longer in love with him and probably expressing her emotions elsewhere , Girl’s need that drama in her life from her man or she will be bored , Almost every couple I have met that didn’t argue or butt heads at all ended up breaking up , cuz the passion is gone the couples I see that are butting heads with each other over little things are still together , Because the passion is there , if there is no passion in a relationship it isn’t going to last bottom line , When a guy learns to balance in between good and bad she is more likely going to stay by his side , because he is a challenge
To her., Girls’ love a dominate , confident man , that keeps her on her toes , If he talks to another girl and his girl doesn’t get a little bit jealous and insecure where she is thinking that is my man , then he won’t get laid , But he will get laid when she does get a little jealous and she feels no other girl can have my man, She will be pissed that he was talking

[Finchie40]

To another girl even though he was just being friendly , but in her mind he was flirting , He says whatever and walks away from her , a little bit later she will walk into the room where he is and jump in his arms , It’s worked for me
Plenty of times so it’s hard to prove me wrong

[Nikki1989]

Nah, nobody has time for that.

[Finchie40]

LOL bullshit