Can you become more attractive as u get older?

[Monalisa77]

Lately, even though I've still no boyfriend lol im feeling like i could be more attractive than i think i am

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+1 y

I dont wear make up or anything and struggle to make myself look good so im Not like other girls but it makes me Think

[OfMiceandMen]

I think so. Especially, if you have great skin and you keep in shape. Let's face it, people tend to let themselves go later on in life (supposedly past their prime), so if you look much younger than you actually are and stay in shape, you're kind of going against the grain/norm, which is really attractive.

[Monalisa77]

My skin is rubbish but i definitely dont look my age. Its just sometimes i look at pics of me and i do wonder and maybe its just my attitude /personality that puts guys off

[OfMiceandMen]

Looking younger helps it suggests you take care of yourself, which is attractive to most. In regards to the attitude/personality, if you are a bit bitter from previous relationships (which is understandable, some guys are a-holes) that maybe something you have to work on. Guys can often detect those attitudes right away, I know I can.

[CaptainOverthink]

You can. It's not so common but some definitely do.
And even though men typically look at youth all their lives that don't mean we don't value depth and mature ways of thinking. Sometimes, no matter how beautiful on the outside, a rotten inside stink. And men in general aren't that picky on looks, average is good. The rest depends on our chances and your mindset.

[Anonymous]

I felt that at age 33 I became the hottest girl alive haha my 16-20 year old me could not compete with sexy cute and nice 33 year old me. and people confuse me for being between 16-20 at 33! lol strange

[Monalisa77]

I do feel like because my immaturity levels differ to others that i could feel more attractive as i get older. Im going to start trying to go out more without my mother

[Opinion Owner]

lol that's me too, I always go with my mom

[Monalisa77]

I went yesterday in the hope of seeing someone i like and i think i actually did see him but he has a beard now😂😂 and its giving me the urge to go out more on my own i was sbocked she even let me. Tbh

[Opinion Owner]

haha I never knew there was another person like me somewhere out there.

wish you luck and hope you find someone really good for you! :D

[FilmGuy93]

Aspects of you will become more attractive, yes.

[inhua]

not everybody can. men and women have different peaks. for men it's usually around 30s to 40s, sometimes on 50s. for women it's usually teens and 20s

ageing makes both men and women look more masculine but looking more masculine benefits men more and disadvantages women

[Gingerbread_GB]

Maturity is sexy as hell. So i'd say yes, but you still need to put in the work.

[Monalisa77]

Im gonna make an appointment to see if there's anything to improve on my face and hopefully thatll help

[Gingerbread_GB]

Surgery? Personally I don't think that necessary unless you have some kind of deformity.

[Monalisa77]

No just different creams or medicine

[D_Bone_Steak]

I've seen really hot older women at gyms... could be a connection there.

Hitting the weights has turned me into a sexy beast.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Most people's looks, if made into a graph, would be shaped like a mountain lol. Usually peaking somewhere around 35

[WanderingLoveWizard]

After that, it's all down hill

[andreasderjuengere]

I had seen it in pubs and bars: the more time passes, the more women become attractive to men of the single type.

Yes, it works.

[Uenvy694u]

I think girls are like fine wine. They get better with age.

[Ben487]

No you can’t. Everybody gets worse with age don’t lie to yourself

[Monalisa77]

Wow brutal as it happens i dont think im pretty at all but im The type of person who will always look young lol people think im in my 20s lol

[Monalisa77]

And i completely disagree some guys do get better looking with age

[exitseven]

Yes, some women get better looking as they get older.

[Anonymous]

Not if you personality is trash. Good women don't lose value.

[Anonymous]

Only if you are a man. For women it starts to go downhill after about 23

[Anonymous]

Yes, most people do.

[dudeinohio]

Yes. That can happen.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Sure you can and I bet you are