Should I tell the guy that I'm pregnant if I'm going to terminate?

[Anonymous]

Well it happened. It was a one time thing and the guy in question is kind of a friend but we're not that close and we definitily do not want a relationship. I have enough money and support from friends to abort it, I already scheduled it. I don't think he needs to know, but do you think it would be morally incorrect not to tell him?

[teamvic]

Hmmm that's tricky. I mean ask yourself these two questions, if you did tell him and he wanted you to keep it. Would you? And does he want a kid anyway?

If both no then I don't see a reason too.

It's hard because he helped you make the little mu fucka. But it is your body at the end of the day. So I guess if you're not going to feel guilty after doing it and not telling him them don't tell him. If you would then tell him

[Asker]

I am 99% sure he wouldn't want a kid right now, his lifestyle is just still too irresponsible and all. He is much younger and the type that likes to party all the time. He doesn't even live here, he visits sometimes. And for me, I am 100% I do not want it, even if he did. I don't know, I just want this to keep as private as possible, I feel like shit already about everything.

[teamvic]

Ahh then there's no reason

[Anonymous]

I feel he has the right to know and I think you also know this otherwise you wouldn't be asking others this question.

[Agape93]

Nope. It's your body and your medical choice to make. Telling him just makes it a messier affair.

[XXblack88]

Yes, you should if he's the dad he has the right to know. He might not want the kid any ways, but you won't know unless you tell him.