A women, in the mid 40s, divorced, is troubling.
It is the second time in a row, she is leaving a single piece of her inner garment in my home. Once it was a lace provoking underwear that she left for weeks which made us think within us as to who it belongs to, we though was an accident but later in the same place she left one single piece of her bra which is here for months.
She takes all of her clothing from there but leaves just a single piece of inner garment
She does the following
1. Locks me and my sis in the room as she wanted to act smart and responsible (She assumed someone was commenting on us and thus locked us in a room until my father came and opened)
2. Prevents us from eating food instead feeds with plants that grows on the sewage as she says, the plants are ayurvedic and with vegetables including those I'm dead allergic (nuts) to
3. Manipulate situations in her favor and thus turn anyone who opposes her as evil to others. (Turned my mother against me and my mother doesn't believe in me despite proof)
4. Keeps recorder in everyone's room and ask others to reduce noise so she can hear properly and saves them on laptop.
5. Claims her husband is psychotic and has incest
6. Plot and execute scenarios through meticulous planning so that fight and drama erupts. Including forcing my mother to visit her (The lady in question)'s husband who was dead drunk and violent (The man has threatened to kill us while drunk and acted violent)
7. Prevents me from wearing any kind of nice clothes with her moral police card, and I personally feel she has always remained jealous of my bust size and always try to make me insecure of it, as a child once she nearly made me not breathe by strapping my comfortable bra tight with little space for lungs to expand while breathing.
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Why does she come to your house.. and when she's there who allows her to do the things she does and if she is spying on you or recording you take that proof to your parents and say look at this is who this lady is this is what she's doing she's a whack job I mean if your parents cannot see that then something's wrong I would put a lock on my door and I would not allow her in my room I would put luck on my front door not allow her in my house what do you think she's looking for why do you think she's doing it
What do you think of the inner garment part. Is she trying to make my mother think my father has an affair and thus create a chain of fights?
I think that's a sick individual you know and I would want to understand why she's doing it what makes her even want to do that
Why dont you kick her out? Who owns the property?
I tried, that's when she turned my parents against me. Now I am helpless and can't even ask my parents for help.
Use it to your advantage. Kick her out then she will get to move in with your parents and they will find out for themselves sooner or later
I stay with my parents and they have seen her doing all the above. When I tried to kick her out, she turned them against me. Now I am the villain here.
Oh, so your parents are narcisstic. Are you working?
She visits my family occasionally for a week or 2. Take my parents out of equation, nobody, not even a single soul believes me except a few.
The truth is she is excessively sweet and caring that nobody believes in her second face.
i understand that. the people that do believe you. can you move in with them?