Im so confused what do I do?

[Anonymous]

Okay so long story short, my parents aren’t really happy about me talking to the girls of my dreams so there were times when I didn’t have contact with my significant other. She recently been hanging out with her friend and this friend has mad feelings for her she’s told me herself, and the asshole doesn’t like when we talk to each other and as of recently we weren’t able to talk for basically a week because her ”Friend” wouldn’t let her go home, and would grab her begging her not to leave, when she tried calling me once. She also tells me to communicate but then gets upset when I communicate about how I feel, and figures out ways to defend her friend, it also pissed me off recently because she said he wants to be our roommate when we get a place of our own I said hell no, because I know damn well I didn’t fight for you just to get 3rd wheeled by your horrible friend, I’m lost and trying to find good reasons not to beat the shit out of this guy because I look really, really fucking fine in Orange…

any suggestions would be lovely

[_Maya_]

Sorry I am a bit confused. Are you asking what to do about your parents not wanting you to talk to this girl or what to do about her friend that you don't get along with? The friend seems like the bigger problem. I am also confused as to what you are with this girl. You mention significant other but then some of it comes off as you and her aren't dating. That makes a big difference as to how you handle the situation. As for your parents you need to talk to them about how much you care for her. What is their problem with it if you don't mind my asking?

[Asker]

We are dating and my parents are not the problem at the moment I dunno what to do with this said friend and my parents just don’t agree due to race

[_Maya_]

Hey thanks for the info. So yeah. That is a tough one with you parents. That is something that you hope they overcome when they see how happy she makes you. Race shouldn't matter. If the friend is beccoming that big of a problem in the relationship then you need to sit with your girl and talk this out. He is obviously causing problems and crossing boundaries. Have you talked to her about it?

[Asker]

I have and she gets upset and always gives me an excuse and be like “aw no he has a heart i wouldn’t hang out with him if he didn’t have good qualities” and I’ve told her trying not to break into tears about how uncomfortable it made me

[_Maya_]

She has got some messed up priorities. This isn't something I would tolerate. My partner is allowed to have friends but if they start messing with my relationship that is over or we are.

[Asker]

Indeed well I guess that answers the question thank you for your time and saving me Jail time

[_Maya_]

No problem. I hope things work out for you. That is a sucky situation.

[boobliker]

Walk away don't ever talk or text her again, or you will get the same shit again and again, some people are like that you find in years to come it best to get out and away.

[Gent207-2]

RUN

This is the woman of your nightmares, she can't commit and is easily persuaded otherwise.

RUN and don't look back!

[Anonymous]

This is a very confusing question. I am not even sure what you are asking.

[Iron_Man]

This is about race what’s the problem?