Situation: i have a boyfriend oversea. Meet him when I went to country A for 2 years then came back to my country (country B). I've recently meet this guy friend through my friends. Since we are both not working atm, we meet up once every two days, go for movies, dinner, talk in the car (usually from 11~4.30am), meet his other friends etc.
Currently meet my guyfriend for 3 wks. But im confused by his actions or the things he says. I thought him as a friend first, but now im not sure if he sees me as a friend.
1. He said that he is planning to go to melbourne but if i stay and dnt go to country A, then he will not go.
2. We message everyday. Just random talks.
3. He told me what he looks for in girls and that kindda resembles me.
4. He said that he has a lot of friends who are girls (and he does) and talked about his ex and how he broke up.
5. When i first meet him, he told me that i am so pretty and looks like i have dated a lot of guys. Lol
6. He said that if we hang out too much and if he goes to melbourne, it will be sad. And said "what are you going to do about it" but the way he talked made me think "what are we going to do with our relationship". I said itll be sad so we should take a lot of pictures but he said "but even tho you see pic/video, it is not infront of you, it is different"
7. He said that he is very caring and wants to see girlfriend evergday if he has one.
8. We were drinking with friends and while everyone went to toilet, i asked him "am i attractive?" And he replied "yes" but we moved on with different convo.
9. During the night (drinking), while we were talking to our friends, we were kindda touchy (hands and arms and shoulders) but he held my hand under the table (we were pretty drunk and our friends know that i have boyfriend) for 20 min or more.
10. He touched my hair few times + pinched my cheeks.
But he might be just doing that cuz he is comfortable? And as he has many girl friends these might be normal to him (?)
Is it flirting?
