Why do women complain about men not being honest but then get mad when an honest men comes along the way and tells their true intentions?

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+7 years ago when I used dating apps like a sucker I would always be honest and tell the women I matched and spoke to that I was not looking for no damn relationships and even when as far as saying that I was using the app to find fuck buddies and boy did this enraged them.

is like wtf? I thought women really wanted to hear the truth for once or at least appreciate that they aren't being lied to.

so I'm guessing that when they complain they are not really complaining over the guy lying to them. they are actually complaining because they want to hear only the truth that suits their ears

Why do women complain about men not being honest but then get mad when an honest men comes along the way and tells their true intentions?

JSmuve · Accepted Answer

I had the same thing happen to me. I've come to the conclusions that a) women can't handle honesty, which is why guys lie, b) women want to hear things that align with their wants, and c) they want guys to be honest so they don't get played but that doesn't mean they'll respond maturely to that honesty.

Fuentes · Accepted Answer

Because the woman who do that can't handle the truth

DaveJord · Answer

LOL!!!

You silly boy, woman say the want a honest, sincere and genuine man. But all men know this a BS that woman say... like they can't honestly mean it... because when they find that they freak out over it.

So most men, know you only tell the woman the truth when you know its the truth she wants to hear.

If you know that your truth is not something she will want to hear, then you just say nothing. She will bitch and complain about why men don't share their true feelings and thoughs... and that men have the emotional range of a goat. But use men just say nothing, out of respect to her, because we know they can't handle the truth.

But what you never do to or for a woman, is lie to her. They have radar for lies... so don't ever lie to them. Just say nothing. They call you out on this BS and say I know you don't agree with me, and you just say "Yes, my love." But never tell her what you really think, because that is worse than just listen to her complain about you not saying anything.

I just say I would love to find a long term committed relationship with a special person, and I am more than willing to explore the opportunity of that with you.

See everything I say there is 100%... I just said nothing about sex, while we figure it out. But yeah, at some point it involves sex. So, any guy thinking he can just get sex, with putting in the effort and being honest about it upfront is a moron.

EricSummer · Answer

Most women are looking for a long-term relationship. When you tell them on the first date that you are looking for fuck buddies they complain because it has already been a waste of time up to this point.

It is true that they should be grateful for your honesty as this avoids lots of complication and helps them to quickly disregard you. Still, this does not turn it around into positive sentiment.

There is no doubt it would be much worse for them if you lied.

SoIcyGang · Answer

If all men went around telling the truth, 99% of us would be barraging women with "hey wanna fuck NSA?"

That's pretty much all most of us want.

I think women are pissed off that men don't spend our lives preparing to be fathers.

Women want men to want to find someone special and settle down. But they believe that all we want is no strings sex. Which is true.

So they're mad about that truth, and every time a man tells that truth by asking directly for what he wants. They Get mad because here is yet another pig of a man who only wants sex.

Thats my theory anyways.

provokeesmokee · Answer

Man: *is open about wanting friends with benefits* Karens: *REEEE when they realize they misread his profile* Man: "Is this all women? Yes." 🤦🏽

richardcory · Answer

If your profile said you were looking for hookups, not something permanent, why did women who weren't interested even respond? Also are there sites that are aimed toward people looking for hookups?

Dede162000 · Answer

I may be mad at the truth but I’d rather be mad for a little while then not be told the truth. The truth a women can get over lying and hiding the truth we can’t.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Maybe it was the way you said it. "I ain't looking for no damn relationships" is likely to ruffle some feathers

petitedollbabee · Answer

It’s almost as if there’s a big difference between being honest and being rude.. crazy, right?

Pinay_ako · Answer

Oh I’d appreciate honesty especially if it’s brutal than flattery

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Knowing that you are dealing with an honest person is only helpful if you have the confidence you need to recognize truth.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

When you hear some complain they are venting and could be from a negative experience.

Chthou95 · Answer

Women language : I want you to be honest but not too honest

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Because women are demon and men are only up to player

LazerBean · Answer

Monkey brained hoe question

shades777 · Answer

best to lie,

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