Had been best friends for 8 years. After me confiding in her I had experimented with being bi-curious, she got very upset and said she needed space to process. It has been just over three months and she basically hasn’t talked to me except for once when I asked if we could just talk it out. It resulted in a short text conversation where she tried to grill me to see if I was still involved with any of those activities but still stopped responding and hasn’t made any further attempts to talk about things or mend our friendship.
Sometimes I just feel like I’ve had enough. Since I moved 45 minutes away, tbh as friends we weren’t even talking much or seeing one another like we were. I started looking at my social media and thinking “we’re friends on these apps, but it’s fake. She’s not my friend anymore—she won’t even talk to me.” After thinking for a minute I decided to delete her off my social media. Oddly enough, she texts me this evening asking how I’m doing. Have I wanted her to reach out? For sure. But I’m puzzled at this point if it’s a sincere attempt to reconcile or just a test to see if I’ve also blocked her from texting me. Should I respond or just act like I never got it? I don’t wanna be that person that’s unwilling to budge if deleting her is what it took to change her mind, but I also don’t wanna be sucked into the trap of thinking she cares if she really doesn’t. Thoughts?
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Be friendly but don't change yourself to please her. If you want to experiment then do so. If she isn't supportive of you then she isn't a very good friend anyway. Real friends will support you even if they don't agree with you. by the way my daughter is Bi and she even dated a trans person from another country and even went to that country for a couple months to visit them. While I wouldn't want that for myself I still supported my daughter because as long as she is happy, healthy, and safe, It's all that matters.
yes you should bc you guys were best friends for so that doesn't just end without some kind of talk ask if this time u can actually talk it out and explain your side of it and just listen to each other
She should accept that your bi if she can't then you have your answer.