Should I disappear after the fight?

[Srx03]

Me : 20 and she : 31 We had a fight with Childish reason she's asked me to send her video of me telling her "I love you" And I told her I can't because I'm with people I wasn't alone but she's mad at me and she's like she'll never ask me anything again. After that I gave her a little time and I came back after to her trying to fix that.. But it seems that she makes things worse. and started to ignore her, then the next 2 days it's was her birthday I wish her happy birthday and she's said thanks and I ignore her again,

but I was always sharing stories on Instagram and now I'm thinking about stopping it and like disappeared and also no watching her stories , what she will think?

[Sparkie460]

If you really love her and she loves you, you should sit down like adults and talk about what is going on between you two. Some women, not all, but some are needy. They need your attention more often than others. It seems like you found one of them. If you just " disappear " , you're ghosting her and that's not cool. If you want to work it out, go talk with her. If you're done with her, go tell her it's over. Do the right thing.

[Srx03]

What if she's attention seeker and she only wants my attention and playing with my feelings when she's boring or sad to feel better like an important person
I'm not gonna broke myself to have her

[Sparkie460]

If that's how she's treating you then why haven't you left sooner? Toss her to the curb

[Avicenna]

Be mature about this. Do you want to be with her or not?

[Srx03]

Yes I want, but she's playing games with me and I don't like that

[Avicenna]

Then tell her you're ready to speak to her about any concerns she has

[haana]

you are not mature enough and planning to disappear and so does she getting upset for you not recording “ i love you” video , both of you guys sit down and talk , say sorry and addressed why is it your fault

[Srx03]

It's always my fault) even she Playing her childish games. she creates problems and sometimes she's ignore my text, when I text her she's just like replying my text she's always want my attention at her like others

[haana]

if you guys love each other both need to work things out, and you don’t have to disappear. You can tell her you need times to be alone and let her know you’ll be back ! Relationship needs personal growth from both parties.

[Anonymous]

“Sharing stories on Instagram”

You are not mature enough for a serious relationship.

[Srx03]

I mean I love her but she's playing games with me and I hate that

[Iron_Man]

Just apologize if not, you’re gonna lose it

[Iron_Man]

I mean her

[Srx03]

What if she's not even interested in me and she just want playing games
I don't wanna be vulnerable

[Iron_Man]

Just find out

[Anonymous]

Why did you have to tell us your ages?

[Srx03]

I mean, she's old than me and of course she's been in many relationships before she meet me