I'm not going to legitimize either your behavior or his, but it appears he's been traumatized in the past, and this experience brought back those old frightening feelings. Other issues can make this worse (ie sleepy, in pain, frustrated by something else, etc.). When we see signs that remind us of our trauma we often either put up our guard (becoming defensive and aggressive) or we run away. If he doesn't work through his past trauma with a trauma specialist, he'll probably continue this pattern throughout his life. If he doesn't, and the two of you stay together, you'll have to walk on eggshells to avoid triggering him. Without his getting help, this relationship will never thrive.
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Some people (over) react, and think about it later. Maybe it was an "excuse" to (ie wasn't going as well for him as you thought it was)? Or like you said in your update, triggered something from the past. But you can see how he is now. If he changes his mind, you might have to have a talk about any future arguments you might have and how you both (you said you over reacted also) can handle it better.
deffo split then. if he can't handle one silly fight, he can't handle anything else.
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Apparently it was a big enough reason for him. Sounds like he did you a favor, what a baby.
I think that there is something else going on. Most guys build up to a break, This sounds weird.
Break up after One fight? Did he ever love you?
I was his baggage, not you. I'm sure of it.
Cut your loss and move on
He sounds immature
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