Has any ladies ever been in her situation? She dumped me after 4 years together.. I told her I didn't want a breakup and she said we wanted different things. We said stuff like we'll always love each other. I've learned my lesson to never beg a girl back cause it pushes them away.
We didn't have contact for 3 weeks and she caved in and texted me saying she missed me and wanted to go for drinks. I agreed and planned the date. She mentions saying I wished you would've fought for me. I told her i want to work it out then she says she's confused. She said she still loves me and wants to be with me cause I'm the one for her.
I told her the same and I want to make it work and it should be her responsibility to show me since she's the one that dumped me. Am I wrong here that I didn't beg her back?
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I believe you did the right thing. What she said about you not fighting for her, that's a defense mechanism that we humans use to blame others for our actions. I mean, she obviously thinks she made a mistake, by saying that you didn't fight enough, she's just trying to blame you for a decision that she took. I think you did the right thing, however, if you are really wanting to try again and you love her, try to work on whatever that went wrong together or you will end up in the same situation again and again.1