How to ease my mind?

[Anonymous]

Hi, so I moved to a new city and struggling to make friends blah blah. I’m social anxious so me and Thai girl at work talk all the time we both just graduated college and get along great. She invited me out Saturday and I’m trying not to overthink it. I’m super excited about it. But I’m also afraid she may want to take it back. What if she doesn’t say anything about it anymore. I’m gonna feel sad. What if she really doesn’t want me to come and was expecting me to say no? Like what do I do? Would I bring it back up again?

[teamvic]

You're definitely overthinking it. Just look at it at face value, you get along with her, she invited you out. You are going. That's it. On the day of you can just hit her up and ask if the plans are still going to happen. If anything else happens you'll deal with it when it happens, for now just be happy

[Asker]

Thank you so much this helps a lot I get in my head a lot and this makes me feel a little more rational

[teamvic]

It's good to always think about all possibilities but not good to think too much into one possible scenario 🤔

But you're welcome