like you realize that 5/10 is average right? average is not bad. so even 6/10 is still pretty damn good. so why is it that women start getting butthurt at 7/10?
People want to hear that they’re uncommonly attractive, I think. Or they just have an inaccurate sense of relatively-objective attractiveness.
I saw a rating scale somewhere, might’ve been on Reddit or something, and it was like a harsher rating scale, which I certainly had some qualms with some of the examples shown, but overall was maybe a little more realistic than the “anyone who isn’t decidedly ugly gets at least a 7.” This is more like what I’d expect a modeling agent to be trained with, like it’s critiquing facial proportions and overall feature-harmony, and you’ll see someone pretty good looking as everyday folks go, but someone would be like “nope…underdeveloped maxilla, 4.7”, and I’m like “what does that even fucking mean?”😂 Reminded me of like 5-10 years ago when that Channing Tatum dude was hot in the streets, and my girl was always like “EW, his eyes are too close together.” She has all this good stuff to say about me too, and I’m like “I appreciate it, but if you think I’m better looking than that dude, you’re tweaked”, lmao.”
But yeah, anyway, that one harsh scale I saw, it was tough, but sometimes you’d kind of be like “ok, that’s fair”, and it was somewhat refreshing to see someone you’d maybe call a Hollywood 7/8 get a 5.2. But then the ones who scored highly were names I didn’t recognize and I assume are just models, and they were almost weird looking, some of them. Like the dudes, their faces were almost too chiseled, to the point where they started to look funny. Same with some of the women. Adriana Lima was high up, I guess I wouldn’t argue that, but some of the others, I’m like the actress you said was a 5.5 is hotter than her, what are we doing here?
So, I say all that to say that that’s not the scale most of us work with, and we’re not harshly critiquing models, we’re dealing with everyday people. We don’t live in the modeling world surrounded by beautiful people, we’re standing in the 20 Items Or Less line at Walmart sandwiched between a couple of ogres, lmfao. All the model-quality folks have been culled from the population and have been swept off to NYC and Paris, etc, and now the rest of us are standing around like “damn, I look GOOD”, haha. So that throws off our own perception, coupled with our own subjective biases, and we’re all probably under- or over-rating ourselves and others relative to this situation.
So maybe a 5.5 in the grand scheme of the entire population is good, on the better side of average. But we want to hear we’re 8+, we aren’t even satisfied with regular-good-looking🤦♂️😂 And I think most people are too polite to really say the truth, so when somebody actually does, it’s jarring.
I don't do ratings because there is no template. There is no standard of measurement. It's purely subjective. So why would I make some girl feel insecure by giving her a lower rating? That's why I don't give 0-10 ratings.
I don't find some celebrities that are supposed to be beautiful to be attractive at all.
There are girls who ask people on GAG to rate them. I might find those girls absolutely adorable. Nothing wrong with their looks at all. But guys rate them 5.5 or 7.5 and it can only serve to make those girls feel like there is something wrong with them.
Of course, it's rather masochistic to ask for a rating in the first place.
I’m a 5/10 overweight.
And I’m a good 8/10 at healthy weight.
Any chick that says she’s a 10/10 is trolling. And you know it. No such thing. She would have to be a supermodel that literally can look like a model without any makeup on. Most women in general are pretty. A small number of them are not, at any weight. They just have bad genetics.
I feel like many women also say they’re 10/10 as a form of rejection towards certain men.
Not necessarily that they think they’re hot. But that’s their way of telling you they won’t settle or that they ain’t looking your way. Subconsciously. Same goes for the;
”You need to be 6-foot, 6-Pack, 6-Figures, 6-inches”
This is all just a rejection specifically towards certain men. For example, if you make good money. A woman would rather say you need to make 6-figures to obtain her. It’s a subtle way of saying she doesn’t want you. Even if you make good money. It’s like she’s making it impossible for you to obtain her. That’s all it is. They don’t necessarily believe they’re models and 10/10. They just find different ways to reject certain guys.
@genericname85
I highly doubt, us women, who get cheated on, day-in and day-out… actually believe that we’re 10s just because of some social media simps. I doubt it.
It’s just a rejection. It’s the same as saying “I have a boyfriend”. When I actually don’t.
Women still own mirrors. Women are still told they’re fat by their friends or their scale. There are still women who get told they’re hot to their face, and the ones who don’t.
Nothing has changed.
If she tells you she’s a 10 when she’s not. She’s just rejecting you. 🫵 That’s all.
@genericname85
women aren't cheated on day in day out. you're painting men in an unfair picture. and even if that was the case, even a girl that gets cheated every day still gets sexually approached by men so they still get the sexual validation even if they get cheated on :D
i think it's weird that you think that it's about rejection, when it wasn't about being sexual or romantic together in the first place but that assumption just tells me a lot about your state of mind just like your claim that women get cheated day in day out.
Not literally day in and day out. But in MOST relationships, and MOST women.
Lol I don't give af who thinks what about me or my looks. I am not vain enough to ask people to rate me like some of the girls I have noticed here that are constantly seeking reassurance they are pretty or whatever. If someone says Maya you aren't even 5/10 you know what I think to myself? OK dude without a profile pic I don't really care because I have a beautiful girlfriend and the only opinion that I care about is hers. There are so many rate me sites out there I don't even know why it exists here. Doesn't seem to fit the site in my opinion.
so your statements "don't give af who thinks what about me or my looks" and "I have a beautiful girlfriend and the only opinion that I care about is hers" stand in direct contradiction to each other. just pointing out a blatant contradiction. don't shoot the messenger.
u The first sentence is in regards to this site as that is what you are asking about... people rating people on this site or the internet, no? I take it you aren''t having girls in real life on the street coming up to you and asking what they are out of ten? So I would think a person with half a brain would understand that without me having to type the extra words but here we are.
so the essence of what you said is that you do indeed care about what people think of your looks in principle. and since i dared to point out your contradiction, you are now attacking the messenger by blatantly attacking my attractiveness to women and my intellect? man that's viscious and toxic as fuck...
so let's rephrase it for you then. if a person that is very important to you sexually and romantically rated you a 6/10 looks wise. would you be happy about it or feel slightly bad about it.
by the way i do understand that people don't approach other people on the street to get rated on attractiveness. i did not say that people do this and you suggesting that i thought so is absurd.
u Wtf are you even talking about? I do NOT care about what anyone outside my relationship thinks about my looks. I mean is it that difficult to get that from my opinion? I made it pretty clear. "by blatantly attacking my attractiveness to women"... wtf? 😆 Where did I say that? I said I am guessing you aren't having aren't having girls irl asking you to rate them so then your question is asking about ratings on the internet or specifically this site. Yeah I will point out intellect or lack of if someone is that dense that they can't get the point without me spelling it out like I am talking to a child. I'll just mute this because I can see you are just here to argue. I have seen you do it plenty.
ok maybe i have unfairly accused you of attacking my attractiveness, cause i caught a wrong drift there. my bad ok?
that doesn't take away fom the fact you did attack my intelligence cause i pointed out a contradiction, which is still vicious and toxic especially cause you're doubling down on it instead of being sorry. and as mod on this site i had sure hoped you'd be able to do better.
to explain to you why it is a contradiction: you said "you don't care about what people think of you" and then you said "i do care what important people you're in a relationship with".
i do understand that you don't care what "most" people think of you, cause it's relatable. you need to understand that people that are in a relationship with you and important to you are still people. so you do care what people think of you.
so can you stop being aggressive towards me? i'm not trying to be pedantic here. just pointed out an inaccuracy and you went to attack me instead of correcting tha tinaccuracy.
i mean how much would it hurt you to say "oh yeah i meant that i only care about the opinions of people that matter to me"? why is there a need to say that i'm dumb for pointing out a contradiciton?
Yeah, you do give af.
There was no need to be rude to him, Maya. No wonder they say the mods are toxic 💀
I think Maya does care or else she wouldn't even have her real picture as her profile picture.
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Because a lot of women live in a fantasy world believing everything they’re told growing up. That they’re cute, pretty, perfect princess. Their friends reinforce this, so do their parents but when reality hits they wonder why aren’t men hitting on them. So to compensate for that they blame the men, that’s something wrong w us because everyone’s told them they’re God’s gift to men.
that's probably about right.
Any chick that says she’s a 10/10 is trolling. And you know it. No such thing. She would have to be a supermodel that literally can look like a model without any makeup on. Most women in general are pretty. A small number of them are not, at any weight. They just have bad genetics.
I feel like many women also say they’re 10/10 as a form of rejection towards certain men.
Not necessarily that they think they’re hot. But that’s their way of telling you they won’t settle or that they ain’t looking your way. Subconsciously. Same goes for the;
”You need to be 6-foot, 6-Pack, 6-Figures, 6-inches”
This is all just a rejection specifically towards certain men. For example, if you make good money. A woman would rather say you need to make 6-figures to obtain her. It’s a subtle way of saying she doesn’t want you. Even if you make good money. It’s like she’s making it impossible for you to obtain her. That’s all it is. They don’t necessarily believe they’re models and 10/10. They just find different ways to reject certain guys.
@genericname85
I highly doubt, us women, who get cheated on, day-in and day-out… actually believe that we’re 10s just because of some social media simps. I doubt it.
It’s just a rejection. It’s the same as saying “I have a boyfriend”. When I actually don’t.
Women still own mirrors. Women are still told they’re fat by their friends or their scale. There are still women who get told they’re hot to their face, and the ones who don’t.
Nothing has changed.
If she tells you she’s a 10 when she’s not. She’s just rejecting you. 🫵 That’s all.
Wow u must be boring or sex deprived or pretending to be someone ur not reality is I’m porn star wild he hates sex lol
@Hotmodelwloser stfu you make no sense
@EmyyWolf that makes a lot of sense thanks for the insight
some people use the 1 - 10 scale differently, like its body + face for some people (so if for those people you say they're a 7 they'll think they're just kinda cute face wise or have a bleh body and so they can be offended) or their 7 means a 6 in most people's books so they can also get upset. why people get upset over that is that well looks matter a lot and no one wants to be average looking or just kinda cute, everyone wants to be HOT. though ironically most people who get offended about being rated that aren't even kinda cute to begin with haha
but why get upset over a "good" rating tho? that i don't get.
Two possible answers:
Someone asked you to rate them: I guess those that do, are so focused on their appearance that they are convinced everyone things they are super good looking. If that is the case continue to rate them however you like they need to learn.
If you rated them, without them being asked to be rated: You express yourself as a shallow person. Its not high enough to be only taken as a compliment (which might work for some) and it feels like being reduced to your looks. I hate ratings of looks. I won't do the rating nor want to be rated, even if some people might thing 10 would work as a compliment. It compliments something which is not super important and not specific enough to actually be taken serious. It just sounds childish.
i don't just go around and rate people without being asked or without that question even being a topic xD I don't know why people assume such absurd things. you're the second one who does xD
if you don't wanna be rated, that's ok. not gonna force it on ya. just wondering why people would ask for a rating, get a quite good rating and then still get butthurt.
So much value is placed on a woman’s looks and everyone wants to feel/think that they’re beautiful. The truly unattractive girls usually know that they are without being rated and getting higher is a feel good. I just don’t see the point in rating people in general tbh. It can really crush someone’s self esteem especially if you’re getting a four or less.
if it "crushes your self esteem" when people rate your looks, your self esteem was built on the wrong foundation. that's a fact.
so i think that's a great opportunity to have your fake self esteem torn down and build a new one on a solid foundation.
why do so many people on here don't understand the use of the generalized "you"? xD. i mean "if" your self esteem is crushed by that, then it is a great opportunity to build self esteem on a more solid foundation. i mean why should someone build their selfesteem based on great looks, if they don't look great and even if they look great, looks fade eventually. makes no sense to me.
Rating people is so weird and the fact that I’m our culture it’s become normalized is worrying. Like I’m a human being not a movie, don’t fucking rate me.
I had some dude rate me once without me even asking, saying I was a 9/10 and it made me feel really disgusted and objectified rather than flattered.
evaluation of "how attractive one things the other is" happens always. it not being said explicitly doesn't mean it doesn't happen and it being said creates some transparency that you don't typically get.
like don't act as if you don't consider some people to be more attractive than others. and that automatically leads to an attractiveness hierarchy that can be expressed as numbers from 1-10. there's nothing problematic with that.
if you prefer to live in ignorance of how attractive you are to others, that's fine. but that doesn't mean people don't evaluate that about you. or me or everyone else.
Beauty is temporary and fleeting that’s why I don’t give a shit about if someone only values me for my looks to the point they’d objectify me enough to reduce me to a number
I’m not sure. I don’t think anyone should rate anyone personally, to avoid all of this unnecessary drama. However, I think a seven isn’t insulting, on attractiveness level. It means you’re pretty, just not super pretty, or beautiful, or very beautiful. That’s still a compliment.
Because 7/10 is when girls start having the sort of butts that guys want to spank. And that hurts.
xD makes sense
Most women are not accountable, they harbor delusions about themselves which is validated by cheap attention (low input validation) eg. social media likes and comments. So when they are rated anything below than 8-9 it comes to a surprise to them. Men and women live in complete different realities.
Women are vain creatures with big inflated egos that gets easily busted. Thats why u have stories like mirror mirror on the wall who is the fairst of them all. Every woman try to be the best looking in the room and if she isn't she becomes hysterical and bulimic or she would bully the hotter rival. Remember how Cinderella’s sister ruined her beautiful dress. And how they acted when she married the prince
To women it’s borderline pretty, they don’t want to hear that, they want at least an 8 even if they are a 5
so the truth makes them butthurt?
Yeah pretty much, just like you can’t talk about their weight
that seems about right.
Some women set up echo chambers where they compliment each other's looks which may create a false sense of themselves. So they get upset when someone doesn't support their self image.
Some researchers have speculated that women give others excessive compliments as a way to reduce competition.
i mean simps give women excessive compliments as well.
I haven't encountered any other female get butthurt from this, as a matter of fact I've never heard of a case where women were being rated, be it boyfriend, just friend or stranger.
there's one girl already in here who said that to her, 7/10 is mid so if her so would rate her that, that would be shitty. so it definitely is a thing xD
I don't know as I've never asked anyone to rate me, that sounds weird. I know I'm probably about a 5/10, maybe lower or higher depending on who you ask and I'm fine with it.
Because 7/10 is mid.. no girl wants to be mid lol
so it goes 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10. you're saying 7 is the middle? xD
ohhh i think you just answered my question perfectly. it's cause women are bad at math! cause 5 is mathmatically the average in a series of numbers from 1-10. 6/7 is above average and 3-4 is below average xD
xD 5 is the average of the numbers from 1-10. logic and maths agree on that fact xD so you gave me another good answer. the reason is that women are bad at math AND logic xD
just messing with you. don't be pissed :D. and trust me men will be able to get it up for a 3-4. they just gotta get naked.
just told you. we will absolutely get hard for a 3-4. she just gotta get naked.
if you don't believe me, go ahead. make a poll asking for what is the lowest number out of 10 a guy would be willing to stick their dick in.
you think "real life guys" are any less desparate than guys on gag? xD lol that's cute.
we're speaking about men in general. it doesn't depend on an individual guy if we're speaking about general stuff. so do girls also don't understand the difference between generals and specifics? xD
but even your very own choice implied that this is the case: but there are "some" that aren't desperate for pussy
choice of words*
so the average is desparate for pussy. that's what i said all along xD glad we finally agree.
:D that's hilarious. you made my day. thanks XD
oh i absolutely 100% will. if a woman gets butthurt when i call her a 7 upon being asked for a rating, i know she's not for me :D so that's ok.
well guess almost all women aren't for me :D
XD i don't understand men who put up with that shit.
i guess there's men that value truth over emotional nonsense.
i I don't know if someone actually is a 10. never saw someone that i would rate a 10. maybe they exist. but i never saw one. and i probably wouldn't even rate my girlfriend a 9. cause realisticly, i won't be able to attract a 9. i'm not deluded.
and as i already said. 5 is already attractive :P attractiveness doesn't start at 10.
dude... i don't look like ryan gossling or whatever girls like these days. so i'm not a 10. i know i'm not a 10. likewise my girlfriend is not a 10. nothing wrong with that. we're speaking about looks here. looks isn't all i choose my girlfriend for.
and how many 8-10 men do you see every day?
insert whatever women would consider a 10 xD I don't know this stuff.
No, the numerical average is 5 and scoring a 6 means you are a cut above the average person and is something to celebrate.
I can't imagine being upset at being rated a 9 which is near perfection that is going to turn everybody's head when they walk out in public. 10's don't exist except in fantasy because that is a representation of there no being improvement possible.
@Juxtapose i think she proved more than enough, that mathmatical terms and logic don't matter to her xD
@Juxtapose 10 doesn't mean perfect tho it just means way above average hot
@Juxtapose I think men and women just rate differently
@Juxtapose that'd be a 11 😆
there's logic when it comes t beauty xD there is no logic when it comes to the female mind :P
I don't know what girl gets mad 7/10 for some n*ggas opinion. :) But they must really think they're the queen of the world
u Many women value themselves primarily on their attractiveness to men, and they have little girl fantasies of being a 10/10.
people don't understand that the male scale and female scale are different
like one is rational and one is emotional? xD
I don't get butthurt, I just thinking the idea of rating someone is kind of cruel
We live in a cruel world and ignoring the cruel reality doesn't make it go away xD
sin doesn't exist xD
Realistic was the word you were looking for. Cause stupidity is living in ignorance or reality and truth
Of* not or
You don't need "faith" or "believe" for things that are real. Therefore sin is not real.
It's a fictional concept described in fictional books like Quran and bible. It's not a real thing.
Yeah after your death so conveniently nobody can ever find out. As childish as saying "I know but I won't tell".
I'm with you. To get an answer to the question, you'll have to ask women.
Me personally I couldn’t care what people think of me. But probably because they have a big ego or something along with that.
there was another person who gave a similar answer. do you not care "what people think" or are there certain peoples opinions in your life that you do actually care about?
not even if it's your S/O?
I would be mighty damn happy to be rated 7/10. But I know I'm far from that.
5 is still fine xD
but I'm so pretty!
Just look around you, there are 20 more that look just like you.
They all want to believe they are 10's regardless of what they actually look like, it's pathetic.
it's all relative at the end of the day but some people struggle with the idea that they're not perfect lol
Lol, right?7/10 is not a bad rating by any means , but girls just want to feel oh so pretty 🥺
Because the average woman overestimates herself, while the average man underestimates himself.
Pretty’s nice but not when u spend 4 hours and r dumb smart is important personalirtnetc
Always rate women without makeup, most of them go from 6 to 4.
Well that's pretty much how averages work XD
All women are rated in binary; 1 or 0. 1 I would, 0 I wouldn't. That's it.
Because women's are use to positive validations. Us guys are use to constant rejections.
They have an over inflated ego and don't understand math.
You’re a German 5 but an American 4.
Hows that feel?
They all give a F--k even though they claim they don't, so always rate them a 9 or a 10
They think they deserve a 10.
try it ypurself and you find out why!
try what yourself?
I know, right?
They have ego's too.
Im a 10 according to judges but I say a 9.7 perfect body n every way but would be a tad hotter if big cs my ex is like a 7.5 he’s hot but also kinda overweight etc so I am way out of his league but he dated a 400 lb girl he’s very judgy I have perfect boobs and if u don’t size shape he says they’re ugly he has a lot of nerve lol like he shouldn’t judge he doesn’t even fuck
Yea and u sound like a corny woman hater and boring n bed
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