Dumpee hates dumper and she's mad about it?

[Anonymous]

So dumper dumps the dumpee and completely ignores him for over 2 months. Then finds out the dumpee hates her for what she did to him and she's mad about it? I don't understand it ladies. So you do the dumping, ignore him, and then get mad at him for being mad at you? What gives?

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+1 y

She's 23 years old and about as emotionally mature as a 13 year old.

[Anonymous]

She is selfish, and doesn't care about the pain she puts others through. Everything has to be about her. Her pride is hurt that you don't want her anymore. She would rather have a bunch of guys fawning over her as she mistreats them all. When they stop fawning over her it is a blow to her pride.

[Asker]

Selfish only begins to explain it... She is shallow, fickle and heartless. She tricked me into thinking she was this wonderful person with a heart of gold. Donating to charities, blah blah blah. Basically it's all to make up for her partying, excessive drinking, random one night stands, doing just enough in a relationship to get by. Yes, she is all about having guys fall all over her. Ironically she's ended every relationship she's ever been in? Life is gonna get her bad.

[candlewax]

I'm sorry, but this isn't a "ladies" thing, it's a "she's a stupid bitch" thing. Seriously. ANYONE who gets mad over the consequences of their actions need a slap of reality and need to wake up to responsibility.

If she's mad, let her be mad. That's just ridiculous bs right there.

[Asker]

Karma is gonna kick her in the ass hard I hope. She really threw away something good.

[candlewax]

People like that usually do have karma bite them in the ass pretty hard. She's gonna cross someone someday who won't put up with that crap and it'll backfire on her.

[glaceon]

She's the kind of person who derps so hard that she herps.

[Quadrophonic84]

I approve this answer.

[Asker]

I like it.

[Quadrophonic84]

I've seen that, it's immaturity. She's a 'tard.

[Asker]

Amen.

[Quadrophonic84]

I just remembered this one chick I met in college. Keep in mind she was a fellow engineering student so she wasn't an idiot. We had a study date and it was OK but she didn't want to go out again. OK fine, I moved on. So she starts sending me messages asking why I "hate" her all of a sudden even though I hadn't been doing anything. It was so transparent that she missed my attention. So I said "I don't hate you. I don't think about you." That got her good. F*cking idiot.

[calichick]

youre update basically answers your question.

[candlewax]

Haa. So true.

[LuvBiddy]

Don't assume that people always act rationally.