Feelings, crying, happy tears? What did you feel when you first find out that your pregnant with your first?

[RoseySarah]

So scared I might be again! But every one else seems like that we're so happy about it...

Am I the only women who wants more time alone with my man after our wedding and to not have all our time spent on our child so soon?

[Anonymous]

Absolute dread and shock. Terminated that pregnancy as soon as I could. I then considered sueing the doctor who told me that I was infertile, but ultimately decided against it and just moved on with life.


However, I’m now pregnant for the second time, but it was happy news. I’m ready this time and in a stable, long term relationship with an amazing man. My initial reaction was to freak out! But after a week of the shock wearing off, I’m very happy, and so is my partner. We can’t wait to meet our little girl or little boy.

[RoseySarah]

Congrats and yes sadly sueing them won't work...
My sister tried that after almost dying during her pregnancy! She had to lose her baby 😭

Now years latter 2 kids my nieces who are so amazing but adopted.

That is my fear suddenly hitting even after a wonderful time that horror feeling! Even though I'm with an amazing man I just can't sometimes even the idea of it.

[Anonymous]

Paralyzing fear! Though I smiled because I knew she would not respond well to that well. I knew I just signed an 18 year contract that is going to shape someone's life permanently. NO ONE is EVER ready for that. But you trust that your love will get you through. At least with following pregnancies you're working off a blueprint. It's funny how much you talk to your parents with that first pregnancy. You go from thinking your parents are old and uninformed, dated. To thinking them as the fountain of parental knowledge (while still distrusting all they say but accepting it because you know they didn't kill any of thier kids😆).

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Your feelings to spend more time with your husband is normal but hormones due change when a woman becomes pregnant, but I could be wrong my cousins, cousin Ashley just had her baby and she had to stay in the hospital because her blood pressure wouldn't come down.

[RoseySarah]

So when pregnant I'll change to just love the baby more?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@roseysarah I don't know what to say , like I could be wrong

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[exitseven]

I was really scared. We had only been married a couple of weeks and we were living in a crappy apartment and I had a lousy sales job where I did not make much money. All I could think of was that were were going to be living in poverty.

[RoseySarah]

When did it turn around or did it?

[exitseven]

I finally got my degree and got into IT. It was a long hard process. Way harder than it had to be.

[tfan1]

My wife was overjoyed and so was I. I said we did it! She said yes we did! I was happy and amazed and she had the biggest happiest smile I had ever seen on her face. 👍🙂

[RoseySarah]

Congrats how long were you trying for? We're you both trying or did it just happen?

[tfan1]

@roseysarah - No we both were trying. If you message me I can give you all details in there if you wish 🙂

[Andres77]

Excited, anxious, worried…and then the joy slowly built up.

[RoseySarah]

Congrats how many kids?

[Andres77]

Two girls. Teenagers now.

[RoseySarah]

That is wonderful bet they are great kids too! Is the mom around still?

[Andres77]

In the middle of a divorce. She got full custody. I moved out and got a house close. so I could respond to any issues, doing what I can every day to deal with emotional and legal and school issues. They’re still being manipulated by their mother and father have to deal with emotionally laden threats often. I can’t hold them entirely accountable because they are operating under the lies of their mother. I moved out and lost my house (I had it before I married her) and found the closest house I could afford so I could be there in 20 minutes to help with anything.
I love them. I’m frustrated. But I’m not going anywhere until they are adults and move out and are on their own.
I’ll always be there dad but I refuse to continue to be manipulated by their mother. One day they will get to know their dad for who I am, not under the influence of their mom. I don’t hate her; she’s a broken remnant of trauma. She’s making our daughters codependent. I’m the cause of all the problems.
I have no choice but to be patient
and spend time with them until they get to know who I really am and then we’ll develop a relationship with each other.
Time will tell but I’m not giving up

[DaBiggestBird]

My only choice in that situation would to just somehow die without shedding my own blood so as the absolute GIGA Chad I am AND Da Biggest Bird, it my divine duty to ensure it never happens.

[RoseySarah]

So you abort the baby the hard way

[Anonymous]

When i came to know that i make her pregnant i tranfer dollars in her account for abortion. .

[RoseySarah]

Did that make you feel powerful making her do that?

[Opinion Owner]

Making girls pregnant is my daily routine 😘

[LunarEclipse433]

I have no kids