Help, I Need Advice From A Girl About How To Talk To My Crush?

[Anonymous]

I was texting my crush everyday for like 2 terms, she told me loads of secrets and she used to say I was annoying and didn't trust me previous to this. So big W for me. She said that we were friends, she didn't know I liked her, but I knew she liked someone else. I just kept texting her than decided to stop and see what happend... she never messaged. I couldn't take the silence so I decided to start talking again, she replied every time. Until one day for no reason she didn't reply, didn't talkin person, and kept rolling her eyes at me. So I was obviously annoyed. Then I said a joke on a group chat, she read it and replied "shut up, no one cares". I insulted her back, stupidly. I deleted the message and tried messaging her personally but she had already blocked me. Now all she ever does is call me annoying and looks at me in disgust. Please tell me if it's not too late, or have I screwed up.

[_Maya_]

I wouldn't say that you screwed up. The reason I say that is because you knew that she liked someone else. I don't think that anything was going to come of this. You even say she viewed you as a friend. I think what happened is you played those little games of starting and stopping texting her and she got fed up. I don't really know what you can do now that she has you blocked other than wait and see if she changes her mind and unblocks you. You are both young so she may just be playing those games too.

[Asker]

Thankyou, I have never viewed it like this, i've honestly just been drowning in self pitty

[SueShe]

Well, a crush is usually a one-sided affair and seldom reciprocated.

The fact that you shared secrets made her realize that she divulged much too much with someone she probably has no feelings for, hence her reaction. I must say that you both act childish and this entire blocking/unblocking problem on social media is the gangrene of youth in the 21st. century.

People don't take time to talk face-to-face but everything must happen through texting. That is the worst thing possible.

Insulting someone back rather than to be the more intelligent one is certainly not speaking in your favor.

Whether it is too late or not, only her can answer this question. I would suggest you stop texting and see each other in real life. That is the best way to get problems out of the way because no texting can show real emotions as good as a face-to-face conversation does. Good luck.

[Pacquet]

Simple. You go up to her and say “sup” but super smooth. Make sure you have shades on. Then you say “do babes like you eat pizza?” and right before she says yes you say “cool” (peek over the top of your shades) “see you at 7” and then you back up slowly. Your back up should be so smooth it looks like you’re floating. Then you snap a couple finger guns at her, and walk off into the sunset. If the sun isn’t setting hopping in a 70s mustang will also work. If you’ve done all the steps correctly she’ll be totally confused.

[Asker]

oh my days, you really have me laughing

[coachTanthony]

Just vow to never text a woman again. If you like someone walk up to them and talk to them like a man.

[Asker]

I've been thinking this, thanks

[WhitneySnow]

You defo screwed up but tbh I’m not sure how. One day everything was cool and the next she was rolling her eyes at you. I’m not sure what changed, so I can’t tell you why you screwed up. Maybe she found out you told her secrets to somebody else?

[Asker]

Thanks for the attempt, but i defo did not say anything to anyone else, simple i had her secrets, she had some of mine. It was like insurance lol. thanks

[WhitneySnow]

Saying that is what made her roll her eyes at you. She thought it was weird that you needed insurance.

[AVirgoMan]

He's upset with you, which is actually both a good and a bad thing. The good thing is that he feels love for you, even though he is hurt and sad. The bad part is that this process made you a little sad. Take it easy, you can continue where you left off.

[Asker]

Thanks dude, but im beginning to think she realy hates me.

[Cutesy_kid_lol]

You haven’t really screwed up, just try apologising (don’t make urself sound clingy/ desperate, e. g: I’m so sorry bout the gc thing, pls forgive me, I miss talking with you (cringe) instead, try this: (e. g “bout the gc thing, my bad.” Like- that’s what girls usually like.

but I don't know, good luck!

[Asker]

Thankyou, ill try that

[DaveJord]

Dude the only way to get better with talking to girls is to talk to them as much as possible. Like dude, men from the beginning of time have asked this question, and there are not any good answers or correct answer... just live and learn.

[Adaeva]

Just move on. There are millions of other girls and you never mess up with more than a dozen.

[Anonymous]

Dude--you don't need advice from a girl. You need to find guys who are successful with women and study them. Get advice from people who have demonstrated success in the areas in which you want to be successful.

[Asker]

m sorry but that comment realy doesn't help my situation, apriciate the idea tho

[Lokiion]

I don’t understand why you would ask a girl for advice on how to date a girl (I’ve did that multiple times and it just doesn’t go well)

[Lokiion]

Anyways it’s over unless you can talk to her in person and be extremely good with how you say things and picking up on how she feel’s about what you saying without you needing to ask but quite frankly I don’t think you got a mouthpiece good enough for that so I would say it 97% chance it’s over maybe improve on yourself the best you can and she might notice and talk to you again I don't know (I’m just be honest from my perspective so don’t get mad)

[Asker]

lol, I didn't think that deep into it

[Asker]

Im not mad dont worry, thanks for your view

[Riribichri]

Screwed up

[In_Trance]

I don't think this is the one for you

[Anonymous]

Use her secrets against her