I can't accept that a girl rejects me so I'm always alone Is there a solution?

[Anonymous]

[Little_Bumblebee]

Learn to be able to be alone and not dependent on having a relationship.

[IslaTheWitch]

It's hard to write anything meaningful if we don't know why are you afraid of rejection.

[jahaims]

Insecurity

[IslaTheWitch]

@jahaims You mean a low self-esteem?

[jahaims]

Low self-esteem is the root cause of insecurity.

[IslaTheWitch]

@jahaims true, but I prefer to ask than assume.

The best advice would be to find a specialist and solve the low-esteem problem. But I assume you already know it. Also, low self-esteem can have many root causes.

I think in this situation, it's hard to write something wise and helpful.

Personally, I would go for friendship relationships with some women. Without any romantic or physical extension. Just to test the waters and see if my worries are groundless (or not).

[jahaims]

You speak with constant redundancies and still somehow think you are contributing to the conversation.

[jahaims]

Fix what you are insecure about and you will stop caring about being rejected.

[Miristheiss]

Lower your standards a bit and ask out some girls you normally wouldn't.

[El_Diamante]

Find hobbies to focus on, so your mind isn’t on that

[provokeesmokee]

Get therapy to address rejection sensitivity.

[gorydetails]

yeah, there's a solution if you're willing to try.