Girls, Why do you think this guy wants to flirt with my ex girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Sure I’m no longer with my ex but he’s been strange about her like he told me he wants to flirt with her and he has asked if she is available. For me I view it as a tiny bit self centred because my ex is my best friend still and there seems a connection between me and her

what do you think? Is he right to want to flirt with her or not?

It’s ok. He can do it

No he shouldn’t do it. Disrespectful

He’s selfish

[HaleyCatgirl]

So personally you're not her boyfriend anymore so he has every right to do it it would just be kind of fucked up. There's nothing you can really do about it. I don't know the reason why you guys broke up but she moved on I think you need to also I'm a bit harsh with these but yeah or maybe even explain your feelings with her because if she's not with somebody you can get back together but it also all depends on the reason you guys broke up in the first place. This is why being friends with an ex probably isn't the best idea but I understand why people do cuz sometimes it doesn't end bad but then this happens so hard this is a hard situation I've never dated before either so that's my thoughts I hope it kind of helped but it probably didn't. I don't feel much help here and I don't think anyone else replied so at least you got somebody's thoughts on it

[Daffotul]

she's way hotter than him maybe and he's shy and is asking if you think he should out of respect maybe

[Asker]

She is but the issue is why does he even want to flirt with her

[Daffotul]

maybe he always had a thing for her or was always jealous of you and is messing with you?

[Asker]

Yeah he seems sour

[Daffotul]

probably hates you secretly sorry

[Asker]

Yeah but if he does he only does because he won’t improve himself. I get a good haircut and I’ve lost weight and worked on myself so I can get a gorgeous woman. I have confidence. He is chasing a pipe dream

[Daffotul]

maybe he doesn't see himself right because he is toxic or narcissistic they play games just to mess witb your head and don't know how to treat people right I would stay away from him and move on

[Asker]

Yeah I am going to
A lot of men in my opinion would rather be like that and not work on themselves

[Daffotul]

damn really