Is hair twirling always flirtatious?

[Levin]

Why would a girl do this if she has a boyfriend?

This girl did this to me numerous times on a night out. I do like her, but I respect the fact that she has a boyfriend (kind of).

[Tapeworm]

Is she using her fingers or something else? (I'm not dildophobe)

[Tapeworm]

Thanks for the MHO!

[TruliAdreamerInLove]

Sometimes I’d twerk my own because I was nervous. Like fidgety. Other times it was because I enjoyed the feel or wanted heartless curls.

I purposely fumbled the first word. Definitely twirled. Lol

[TruliAdreamerInLove]

Heatless*

[Levin]

Yeah, this was a cryptic message but I think I liked it.

[TruliAdreamerInLove]

. 😂

[mandyfire98]

No it's not always flirting. Sometimes it's out of boredom or just for the hell of it. Sometimes without even realizing it I will mess with my boobs on the couch. Just because really.

[RavVid]

Hair twirling is self grooming and self grooming is body language for sexual interest. Sexual interest doesn't mean they want to do you in the toilet in 5 mins.

[OddBeMe]

I’ve read about body language and while some may be overt flirting, I think the FBI rule applies. They teach to look for trends in body behavior. Because we all have quirks.

Now, if she’s spending a lot time talking to you, leaning towards you, twirling hair, smiling, eye contact…even the FBI would be like “Hit that”.

[Levin]

She's a good girl. She has a boyfriend so she'd be good. Unfortunately, she is a phenomenally attractive girl. She's probably one of the most attractive girls I've seen. I was just curious the degree to which alcohol relaxes tension and shows hidden thoughts and feelings.

[OddBeMe]

Why is tht unfort?

[Levin]

Cause it's annoying. Don't waive something in my face that I can't have :)

[OddBeMe]

Oh alcohol does relax people, it limits inhibition so if she were flirting with you it’s still a good thing.

[Levin]

Anyway, I'll just leave the thought now. tis not particularly productive!

[CoolCatMar1]

No i do it because i feel sexy lol has nothing to do with guys around me

[midnightmoon05]

Was the boyfriend there?

girls do that for fun… we like our long hair and we do that not knowing because we had it since we were kids…not related to flirting.

[strateguy632]

not flirt. she usually twists for nervous are even absent-minded. twist is not flirt also in your story not flirt.

[AaronKrieger]

My mother twirls her hair in the car when I am guessing she is bored, so I presume many other women do it for that reason too.

[Anonymous]

She could just be a nervous/anxious person and self-soothing with hair-twisting. Even if she was twisting her hair because she likes you, what are you going to do? Hook up with her and have her boyfriend show up at your house/workplace?

[Anonymous]

I’m literally twirling my hair as I read this

I am not flirting with you

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Sometimes it means she’s nervous

[NathanDavis]

lol... you