Girls, do you think the no contact rule works where it sparks interest again between people if there as a bad falling out/misunderstanding?

[Anonymous]

[678987]

Communication and understanding between both parties play a significant role in determining the outcome of a relationship.

Rather than assuming the worst or hoping for regret my opinion is there should be an open dialogue about each parties feelings and intentions. It could pave the way for closure but there's a point missing here in which consists the "bad falling out"

[Asker]

Bad falling out meant, let’s say things were said that were misunderstood and needed clarity but one person was extremely offended things can be resolved.

[678987]

Yes, things can be resolved. Maybe the other person is avoiding you because she respects your decision and got hurt deeply inside and prefer to respect your space.

[Anonymous]

Often. However, if you have to prove your worth to someone else, where you must manipulate them, are they even worth having?

[Asker]

Well I wouldn’t say manipulate but just being open and honest.

[Opinion Owner]

How is no contact being open and honest?

[678987]

Exactly :(

[Nikki1989]

Rules are made to be broken. Don't go there.

[Asker]

what do you mean you're saying no contact doesn't work?

[Tharithi]

It doesn’t. I personally lost interest completely to a guy

[Asker]

you're saying if you choose to stop talking to a guy its over for good, you're never going to want to talk to him again or pursue him that way. Because there a lot of videos on YouTube by females and males saying that no contact is about creating that attraction where the person who is dumper doesn't see value in someone they once liked. In todays world, people assume, I can find someone better. But ill be blunt -- its not easy finding someone who is loving, caring, gives space, wants to work on themselves, doesn't have some, has masculine traits, etc. But usually the dumper feels like they won, while the person dumped will feel like shit for weeks, months and years but if the dumped works on themselves and gets better, I feel the person who was out of line to break up will one day regret it. It's different if a guy was a stalker creep, tried hurting her, emotionally manipulative then she can say im glad I removed him out of my life. BUT if she was the one who was rude and out of line and he just takes her insults and doesn't say and contact her while he feels badly hurt. Eventually one day, she will regret it. You may disagree but thats how life works eventually.

[Tharithi]

No it doesn’t work on girls who are looking for a husband and not a one night stand or hook up. It might work on girls looking for friends with benefits. For me a man who chases protects provides is most attractive

[Tharithi]

A guy who runs away hides and expects a women to chase is a femboi not a man.