Girls, How long is a talking stage with a guy for you?

[Anonymous]

Obviously it varies but do you think 9-10 months is too long for a talking stage. At that point don’t you think a decision should be made whether you want to pursue it further or stop pursuing him.

[Anonymous]

Of course, if after 9 months you didn't lose the interest it's good.

[Asker]

wait when you say if after 9 months its good do you mean the connection between the two is good after 9 months? But what if SHE is unsure but he is sure. Let's say 10th month goes by, 11th month goes by, 12 months goes by (1 year). At some point talking for that long if she's still unsure is wasting his time in my opinion.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I agree your viewpoint and am the same opinion. If after 9 months the connection is still there is good, I don’t think she/he is unsure I mean 9 moths as you said not 1 week. You should be more than sure about your intention/feeling about her/him at this point in time.