depends. if a platonic friend. immediately. trust is a different matter but that's for anyone women or men.
if I like him.. never. I never get fully comfortable vc I'm not quite comfortable liking peple in that way. ialways absurd for bothering.
anyways to get comfortable enough takes year of seeing each other a few times a month. a few months if I see him regularly weekly because of class together or work etc... but I prefer to get acquainted slowly over time and to think we like each other because we like each other not just because its convenient to do so because we share a room a few times a week for w/e reason... though that does make it easier.
I think I get comfortable around a guy after texting a bit, and hanging out several times, especially when we are all around friends. It's easier for me to get comfortable with a guy if we aren't pressured to always focus our attention on each other, if there are other people involved, and you can see how they interact with them and they can see how you interact with them. I feel uncomfortable around a guy if he starts talking really crudely, and if he feels like he always needs to fill silences. Sometimes pauses in conversation are fine, and when he stumbles to fill them with awkward laughs and what not it is kind of uncomfortable.
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It really depends. I know guys that I've known for years and years and I'm still not comfortable. And I know others that I felt comfortable with within hours of meeting. There's no difference between friends and boyfriends, other than I'm more comfortable with boyfriends because I trust them more.
I get uncomfortable when the jokes get too crude, they get touchy and don't stop even if I want them too. Just vibes really. So it depends completely on the guy.
Depends on the amount of common interests we have. Comfortable..same interests, weird, sense of humor, understands me. Typically a good friendship to start off with as a foundation
Uncomfortable...clingy, too physically touchy, awkward silences..that's really all I can think of right now, my brain hurts
Every girl is different when it comes to this, it also depends on the guy she is around. I am the type of person who needs to be comfortable with you before I can really show my true self. If the guy is all awkward and not open, I am going to feel awkward, leaving me uncomfortable. But if you are a guy who is very easy going and open, then I will be able to let loose and show my true colors. Girls who are closed up need a guy who is able to push their boundaries in a good way, when I say this I mean they need someone who will push their boundaries without getting them into trouble.
Define comfortable? My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year but I still blush around him when I do something embarrassing. Only in the last couple of months have I REALLY gotten comfortable with him but we've been gradually getting more relaxed and comfortable. I mean...by month 4...we hung out and separately enjoyed computer time occasionally...by say...month 4-5 I stayed at his place while he was out and about comfortably.
So basically different comforts at different paces.
Everyone is different but I think if a guy is nice and smart with good sense of humor it does not take much time to feel comfortable around a guy - one or 2 dates or if you study/work together/go the same gym etc. it is easy to get accustomed to each other rapidly.
Yes, every woman is definitely different.
For example, I'm never 100% comfortable around anyone, even people I've known for ages. It's just something I have to work on, and have been working on.
As for men, I usually feel pretty comfortable after 3 or so dates. We get a flow going, we start to learn the way the other speaks, what the other likes, etc.
Yeah everybody's different! For me it mainly depends on the guy. If we instantly click and have a lot in common, maybe a month or two. If it's kinda awkward and we don't have much in common, I'll probably never be very comfortable. You can make me more comfortable by being a gentleman, keeping the conversation going, small compliments, and just showing me you enjoy my company!
It depends s on how he make me feel and the way he carries himself. I just won't open up to any guy unless I feel like I can trust him 100% if I don't feel like that then I'm just gonna be quiet and not say much.
For me it takes however long it takes for me to be myself around/with him and have him accept that. Once I feel or know that a guy likes me for me, and I don't have to be a nervous wreck impressing him, I am comfortable with him.
Depends on the guy usually. If he's nice to me and isn't being a jerk I generally get comfortable quickly. Especially, if he's non-judgemental; however, I'm quiet at first just to figure that out.
Every woman is different. I am a very reserved person so it all depends on how astute the man is and how well he treats me.
they know within about 10 min to 5 hours of being around you whether they are going to ____ you or not.
It's not about time it's about his personality, vibe and attitude
It's not a question of time but of personality.
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