Why did my girlfriend reproach me for never buying her flowers when I gave her more unique gifts?

[Anonymous]

I gave her a notebook in which I wrote our memories, I gave her a photo album with us, I gave her some handmade cards with cute drawings. Then why did she reproach me for never buying her flowers?

[Billlewis]

One of the most important things that a guy must do for the woman whom he wants a meaningful relationship with is to become obsessed with spoiling her constantly, enthusiastically and most importantly, with ridiculous generosity. Whether she's being unreasonable or unrealistic in her requests is completely irrelevant, because as a woman, she should always be accommodated in her every whim, in my opinion. I know guys will say, 'Are you crazy? You can't let women make you do whatever they want...', but that's my philosophy and I don't any other way to handle a situation like that, other than to just do exactly what she wants, in every set of circumstances that arises.

[slatyb]

No idea whether this is a reflection of her view of relationships in general or just momentary bad behavior. If the traditional is going to continue she needs to learn a different way of communicating besides blaming things on you. Think hard about this before you invest any more time in this relationship.

[Anonymous]

i guess because sometimes girls just want something simple like flowers