What does it mean when I was really thoughtful when giving gifts to my ex girlfriend and she just bought me random things I never would use?

[Anonymous]

So she would tell me what she would want and I would always get that but also I would pay attention to the things she naturally liked and it would reflect in a the gifts for example her last birthday she likes pink and flowers so I found a really nice coach purse and bought that for her. For me she would get random things and then guilt trip me if I didn’t use them also more often then not she would take them and use them herself.

[Smashingdoozy]

Some people just suck at giving gifts. Or maybe it's something she really wants you to use.

[Asker]

But she would end up taking the stuff like I was light weight offended because it’s as if she went to the store bought the stuff knew I wouldn’t like it just so she could keep it because she wanted it all along

[Still-alive]

"also more often then not she would take them and use them herself."

There's your answer. she's buying them more for herself then for you lol.

Welp she's an ex for a reason

[Anonymous]

Yeah, not everyone is good at gift giving.