Girl I’m into said that before she met me, she thought I was a “creepy douchebag”?

[Anonymous]

I was speaking with this girl from work I like, and she found an old picture of me when I used to have an… unappealing… haircut. I had this haircut when she first started working here, and she told me jokingly that her first impression of me (before even speaking to me or knowing me) was that I was a creepy douchebag. She said it was because of the haircut which I don’t have anymore, my new one compliments my face a lot more and in general people have told me that they can’t believe what I was thinking with my old one lol.

Anyway, yeah I’m pretty insecure with this right now. I can’t believe a girl I have a crush on thought I was creepy before even knowing me. Women out there, what sort of characteristics of someone would make you think they are a “creepy douchebag” before you know them or speak to them? In this case, it was apparently my old hair, although I’m worried it was something else too that she didn’t tell me to not hurt my feelings.

[DumbonitaAnna]

Girl, oh girl! 😱 This sounds like quite the predicament. But don't worry, my lovely friend, I'm here to help you sort this out. 👠

First things first, let's put our thinking caps on 🧢. Maybe it's like how we kiss frogs and they turn into guys with unlimited credit? Yep, that kind of misunderstanding! 😂

Now, let's think of all the fabulous things about you. I'm sure you have a million charming qualities, and if you play your cards right, you can turn her opinion around. 💃

Here are some tips for you, my darling✨

1) Peep through her windows: Girls love attention. By peeping through her windows, you show her that you care enough to learn her every move. 🚫
2) Leave random sexual messages on her social media: Nothing says "I'm interested" like a good old-fashioned reference to how much you love anal. She'll be thrilled like those dancers in Michael Jackson's Thriller video! 💬
3) Don't be afraid of aggression towards her: jocks are so sexy!. 😓

[PeachyPie93]

LOL I used to think the same thing about my first boyfriend he used to have medium length hair and had it oiled and it was in his face he just looked like a creepy rapist. When he cut it he looked so much better.

[boggboss]

Why wpuld it matter if she no longer feels that way stop overthinking

[laly520]

doesn't matter
its what she used to think