Does it mean something that a girl I know from the past followed me back on TikTok?

[Anonymous]

[Static_In_The_Attic]

YES it does. It means toy you have one additional follower.

On the flip side the only way to really know is to find out so maybe time will tell or maybe it won’t. As for your new follower do you want it to mean something?

[Asker]

I do want it to mean something because I like her

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life if you never try you will never know & as for me I rather try & fail rather than not try at all. As for you if you want it to mean something because you like her do something about it. Grow a set & tell her you like her & if she happens to unfollow you on TikTok who cares life moves on.

[Asker]

I'm not the best at communicating so I don't know how to tell her i like her without sounding creepy. Also she has a kid and broke up with her kid's father not too long ago so it might not be the best time. We have history and she already knows I like her so if nothing has happened by now she clearly isn't interested

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Some say there is no time like the present & others say it’s now or never & as for you if you have balls in your pants now is the time to use them if not go back to being a pussy & I guarantee some other guy or girl nowadays will take a chance while you play with your fiddle or whatever you kids nowadays play with.

[Asker]

I have the balls to say something, I just don't know what to say.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In your previous message you said you are not the best at communicating. Who cares! In your previous message you said you don’t know how to tell her you like her without sounding creepy. Who cares if you sound creepy! In your previous message you said you have history with her & she knows you like her. Who cares? I do & I’m sure you care for her so let’s get to the bottom of this bucket of clams.
1. What is your history with her?
2. Being that she has a kid is that a problem?
3. Do you realize it’s a package deal? If you want to be a part of her life you have to be apart of her kids life too.
4. Did you actually tell her you like her?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If you have the balls to say something & you don’t know what to say start by saying hello.

[Asker]

1. The history I have with her is we used to work together years back. Long story short I was interested in her and she didn't reciprocate my feelings but she kept me as a "friend". She was using me for attention and an ego boost and I didn't like that. I confronted her about it and as a result she cut me off and she has been standing on that till this day.
2. Her having kids is no problem
3. I understand it's a package deal and I'm willing to give it a shot.
4. I actually told her I liked her years back and that was probably the worst mistake. I had no idea you're not supposed to tell a girl you like her verbally but instead show through your actions. I made lots of mistakes because honestly I didn't know.

I texted her weeks back hello how have you been and she didn't respond. I texted her most recently happy mother's day and she responded thank you.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

My brother from another mother now we’re cooking with gas.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Send her the following message. If Covid Doesn’t Take You Out Can I?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Years back you told her you like her & that wasn’t a mistake.
When you told her was she in a relationship?

[Asker]

I'm not sure if she was in a relationship but she had to be talking to someone else

[Anonymous]

Key part here is “followed you back”, it’s not like she went and followed you on her own accord. So does it mean something? I guess if you had a falling out it means she’s got no bad blood with you. However you shouldn’t immediately interpret that as the signal for you to reach out. I know that isn’t why I’ve followed people back in the past, and wouldn’t expect as much in the future.

[Asker]

I get what you're saying and you made a lot of valid points but she still doesn't have to follow me back. She knows my feelings for her so by me following her she knows my intentions. I took her following me back as her at least being slightly curious about me

[Opinion Owner]

You can’t do that, and shouldn’t do that — placing implications behind her behavior without any word from her. You are putting way too much behind such a simple move on social media, and I think your feelings for her are what’s helping you justify what you’re doing. If you are trying to extend the olive branch then do that on your own accord, do try to put motive and meaning behind something that may not even be valid or fair.

[Opinion Owner]

**don’t try to put motive and meaning

[aqvst]

it depends on how you know her. Past friend? Past ex?

[Asker]

I would say she is neither. We talked a lot over the years and then had a falling out. I had a crush on her and still do actually

[aqvst]

she’s just being friendly, probably wants to see what you’ve been up to

[Asker]

I followed her first, she is not just reciprocating what I did?

[Moonbombom]

Yes can be means something, or just wants play with You

[Asker]

As a woman tell me why you follow guys back?

[Moonbombom]

Well I don't remember did that, but to me, I would do to see how far go the guy, or if I knew the guy and I follow back, that guy atracted me, o me parece atractivo el chico

[Moonbombom]

If You don't understand me, I don't speak English very well :)

[Asker]

I understand. Where are you from?

[Moonbombom]

Venezuela

[Asker]

Can I inbox you?

[Moonbombom]

If You want

[Asker]

I followed you. I think you have to follow back

[Krystal_Yu]

Maybe she just wants to know how you've been recently.

[Asker]

We had a bad falling out when we stopped talking. I actually like her and I want to get to know her

[DishLady]

Nope.

[Asker]

Why doesn't it mean nothing?