Girl's Behavior

Was asking for intimate photos a good decision?

A little over a month ago I met an African woman, we started chatting, it was not the best way to do it and especially with the immense distance that separated us, but I wanted to meet her; problem, she spoke a language that she did not know, a typical African language, but she knew French and wrote in that language; I tried to get to know us by asking her questions about her life but she refused to answer, she only said hello and basic responses of a typical woman who has no real interest in a man.

I was talking to her in the same boring way for almost a month, she for some reason considered me her boyfriend and on three occasions she asked me for money without even knowing me at all, I refused on all three occasions, she didn't deign to meet me to give it money? Aside from this, I usually try to meet a woman through photos, they don't have to be sexual or intimate, they are just photos of her daily life, but she sent me photos or videos from her TikTok, why would I want that if I could see directly on her TikTok? But that wasn't the real her, it was a mere fantasy.

Then I made the decision, although not the best one, to ask her for intimate photos, to know how committed she was to me; Yes, it wasn't the most subtle thing but with this I knew that she was just interested, this girl stopped talking to me, she ignored me and soon she blocked me on chat and I blocked her on TikTok; I don't regret asking her for those photos, but very childish or well, not childish but her culture prevented her from sharing those "photos", yes, she even told me that we couldn't do anything sexual until we were married.

So, be honest, did I do right or did I do wrong? Yes, I admit that it was not the best way to know what it was for her, but I couldn't find any other way to know how committed she was in that supposed relationship.

Was asking for intimate photos a good decision?
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