What kind of job should I get? I am transgender who doesn't cross dress?

[whistlingwh0res]

I don't cross dress because I feel something bad whenever I dress up. It's like negative energy blowing on my face. I feel just comfortable swearing men's wear but then when I start to talk people just freak out. I sound like a woman and act like a woman. I mean I feel disgusted by myself but then I am natural. I feel like I am rejected everywhere because I look like a man but I act like a woman. Some men seem to understand and some women too. But I can't just fit in anywhere. I figure that I need to act like a man when I wear like a man or act like a woman when I dress up. but then I just want to be natural. I don't like faking. I mean.. other transgenders copy straight women and they are so obsessed with looking like a woman and that's all they do feeling so insecure. I don't like that. I mean so far I am just comfortable living as a man. I don't go to places where I have to act like a man all the way. My acting ability is limited. I can't act like men do. so I limit myself going places briefly if I have to. but then it comes to a point where I need a job or money. I need some money but I can't present myself looking like a man sound like a woman. I don't know what to do.

[northerngal]

Its tough being a trail blazer... it will take a while for society to catch up sadly. But this is not your fault. Be who you want to be and if people do not like it well they are not the people you want to associate with anyway. As for jobs? Well a job you want to do and that makes you happy. I know up here in Canada ( I think the USA is similar) there are very specific laws against discrimination based on sexual or gender orientation... so wear what you want!

[renodnol32]

What is your work experience? What are your qualifications?

[whistlingwh0res]

my education is incomplete and all of job I worked in is illegal and short term

[renodnol32]

Hmm. How about something just for experience first? Cash till at a store or restaurant? Cleaning cars at a car wash? Launderette? Uber driving if you got a car. Runner or server at a restaurant. Security? Fast food cooking? Ooh, sales jobs are good.

[_piotr]

Do not be trans! This is a sin. Repent, embrace God and truth and return to your real self!

[whistlingwh0res]

Jesus was a trans woman

[_piotr]

No. He was not. He was a man. An example of true masculinity.

[Jennz6]

You could be a waiter

[whistlingwh0res]

isn't it just weird people look at me walking like a woman?

[Jennz6]

No, I have seen Trans girls wearing men’s clothing in restaurants, they were working as waiters

[whistlingwh0res]

I am tired of pretending

[Jennz6]

I understand