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This guy rejected me after I date. I wasn’t good enough for him and now he’s pursuing women who are better. He’s searching for a doctor/nurses and I feel envious. I was never smart or pretty… I wanted to be a paramedic in the army…. She’s everything I wanted to be in life and I’m just nothing
I’m a teacher I suck. Trying to find something else
I’m trying to accept that I probably won’t find anyone. I didn’t want to anymore
I hate everything about myself and I have a reason to.
The only I can think about doing is something quite degrading like onlyfans etc. I like being half naked a lot. I love male attention online. It’s the only thing that makes me feel good about myself. I’m nothing
I’m a teacher I suck. Trying to find something else
I’m trying to accept that I probably won’t find anyone. I didn’t want to anymore
I hate everything about myself and I have a reason to.
The only I can think about doing is something quite degrading like onlyfans etc. I like being half naked a lot. I love male attention online. It’s the only thing that makes me feel good about myself. I’m nothing
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Stop being dumb and find yourself a guy that accepts you for who you are as a person, from your heart , not for what you bring to the table , Whoever said being a teacher wasn’t a good job? Do not waste your time on guys’ that are looking for money over wanting your heart instead, , I’m sorry but that is dumb , I feel bad for any girl that falls for a guy like that , money has nothing to do with love , get that shit out of your head
What do you teach?
K-8 art
You can't be dumb if you can teach that.
Something I don't understand though. Why do you judge your worth on how much you are valued by guys like the one who rejected you?
You wouldn’t understand.
Trust me. I can’t even do that right. I can understand why he would want someone better.. I wouldn’t want myself either.
Well if I can't understand, surely that would make ME dumb.. not you?
No, not at all. It’s just layers to what I’m saying and there’s big reasons I feel this way. Especially since I have a track history of men wanting to be with other women… better women. They get mean and they dispose me like I’m nothing.
And because it's happened so many times, you begin to believe it cannot be them at fault, and so has to be you, right?
Yeah… if I were smarter, prettier… some even married…I don’t believe that I’m good enough.
He did say he hoped that I find a man who can love you the way you need to be but how can I believe that especially after being treated that way.
Is it possible you could just be going after the wrong type of guy?
I truthfully did not feel that he was the wrong type of guy.. he never did anything to make me feel that way. He had actually did the opposite
How long would you say you've been on this site? ball park figure.
You don't have to answer that, but long enough to see there are a lot of guys who feel as you do..
2 years
All that is wrong from what I see is you have an inferiority complex. As if you believe you aren't worthy. I'm really struggling to see why though. Just because a guy you liked rejected you,. .. I reckon throughout my life I have been rejected more than you.. I could probably write a book on it.. Why makes me so different to you in that I laughed it off and you take it to heart?
I don’t like just any guy. It’s something about him that’s hard to find and it’s hard to explain… I ruined things by not being enough
I feel like he took something away…. It’s very hard to explain
It’s almost like if rather not be here then to face this. It really hurts
More so his treatment towards the end…. Why did I have to tell him that him ghosting is hurting my mental health…. Why couldn’t he care enough about my feelings to communicate that he’s not interested
Would I be right in thinking that maybe in some twisted way, you like the mistreatment because it makes the good times more exciting and something to strive for?
No, I don’t like mistreatment. I like feeling safe emotionally and reassured
Sometimes when you like someone so much and you’re in denial about how they feel about you.. you just become oblivious.
I didn’t want to sit there and be made to feel insecure, disrespected and less by a guy I thought I wanted to be with..
Ok well what about viewing it this way? He never lived up to your expectations of him, and that being the case was that his fault, or yours for picking a guy you thought was better than that?
I'm trying to get you to see that there is nothing wrong with you, other than your ability to pick the right guy for you. and if that IS the case, it's the only thing you need to work on...
Yeah Ik. I just feel like I’m not good enough and he treated me accordingly. Which makes things worse. It’s like again… how can he just throw in there “I hope you find a man that loves you… ect” and expect me to believe that I can. Ik I shouldn’t feel this strongly about him but I just feel really hurt for some reason. It’s like I’m really not good enough. It almost feels like I deserve it. It’s like everything is in his hands and I just want to call him and tell him to just fix it. I’m nothing more to him than a dying animal on the road.
It’s like I feel like nothing. I’ll never be as good as her. She’s a doctor.. has a lot of likes, she’s prettier
And I’m nothing in comparison. I just wish I was dead. It makes it easy since I’m already disposable, replaceable and forgotten.
I think I have finally figured out how I am able to deal rejection so much easier than you. You are looking for some form of validation from him, where as I find it from within. How about you try that? If you do though. Don't sit there thinking about negativity.. Be positive. You know deep down you have a lot of good qualities to offer. Meditate on THOSE.. k? try it.. if it doesn't work so you've lost a couple of hours..
You need therapy