wow that sucks, I understand your frustration. why would she recycle a gift of sex that she gave to an ex which obviously is bad because they aren't together anymore, so why would you do something that didn't work in the first place. Plus to treat a completely different man, a different lover the same as the last one implies that she does not care and it's impersonal and ingenuous. I don't think she is thinking it in the realm of a previous failure. Because in the big picture it is a great gift but I think she is thinking of the fact that she is giving you free range for a night and that is a good gift BUT again she probably was not thinking of the fact that the gift has already been given AND she lied about it! that sucks sorry
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I don't see anything wrong with this at all. It's not like it's a big unquie thing that was special to her relationship with him, something that only they did together. All couples get hotel rooms, do you really think she can never ever get a hotel room ever again cause she did it with her ex? I think you should talk to her about it and go away with her. She was nice enough to book and pay for this for you, it's not like she's took you to a special place only her and her ex did together, like I said, everyone has hotel rooms. I used to go to the beach with my ex, does that mean I can't go to the beach ever again with my current boyfriend? Its silly.
Spend Time with your friends, she's obviously dumb, why would a girl want to repeat with you what she did with her EX on their Bday night. that's sick!
plus she wasn't honest with you and that's another problem she has!
I don't see a problem with it personally. If it was a ring or something she wanted to give you, I wouldn't want it. But this is an event. She may not have been able to cancel the reservation too for all you know. So it woulda possibly been wasting money away for nothing. If it was something that was gonna be sentimental and held onto I would be offended but not this.
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I agree with you. Move on. She seem to have something hung up.
Uhm. your over thinking it. Sometimes I think my ideas I had with my exes are still good ones so I would love to do them with my current boyfriend who I love 689568954 times more. you never know her reasoning
So she got a hotel room for her ex, and now it is wrong to get a hotel room for you? Lots of couples get hotel rooms...so what? Dude, she did something thoughtful for you and you're being a total a-hole. Get over it, and go have fun, and stop worrying about the past. It's over.wow. that's f***ed up I'm pissed just by reading what your sayin. if she gonna treat you like she did her ex she's not the one for you.
Dude, you are acting like a little bitch. You need to be dumped..
What is wrong with you ..
Dump her!
You don't deserve her anyway.dono't be a big baby. get over it
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