What is the obsession with posting pregnant “bump” pictures?

[Danny_dan92]

Full disclosure. I understand the concept of creating new life is precious and a gift.


But I have seen so many girls post pictures showing their bumps.

(Guys, if you agree with me on this. Like the question)

1. I’ve seen some were not going to lie it looks nasty… the girl has the vertical line on the stomach or the belly button protrudes like crazy.


2. Something I definitely took into consideration when seeing this but imagine how women that are infertile must feel when looking at other women post pictures like this…


3. Personally I see it no differently than if women that were simply overweight posted pictures with their bellys out… but girls don’t do this.

What explains this behavior?

Updates

1 y

To those that talked shit. I’ve asked 3 positive questions and none of you answered lol so I’m a “debbie downer” nah. Ya’ll just enjoy talking shit. You know who you are

[LordMadara]

BECAUSE ITS AN ACHIEVEMENT THAT IS GETTING HARDER & HARDER FOR WOMEN TO POSSESS 🤷🏽‍♂️

DUE TO THE FACT WOMEN ARE DOUBLE MINDED

THEY WANT/ ENDORSE FEMINISM AND MISANDRY BUT AT THE SAME TIME WANT SPERM TO MAKE OFFSPRING FROM THE SAME MALES THEY ARE TAUGHT TO DISRESPECT OR SHAME 🤦🏽‍♂️

PREGNANCY IS HARDER TO ACHIEVE THESE DAYS FOR MOST WOMEN, THEY RUSH FOR THE MALE SEED AS SOON AS THEY GET OUT OF UNI/COLLEGE (if she wasn't active enough during highschool teen years)

PREGNANCY ENSURES THAT THEY STAY RELEVANT TO A SOCIAL GROUP OF THEIR LIKING ie FRIENDS/COLLEAGUES/FAMILY ESP MOMS (parent)

AS WE SPEAK I HAVE FALLEN VICTIM TO THIS PHENOMENON DURING MY EARLY VARSITY DAYS, WHERE MY PREVIOUS 3 X's GOT AWAY WITH MY SPERM ONLY TO HAVE MY KIDS WITHOUT MY INVOLVEMENT IN THE UPBRINGING OF THE OFFSPRING 🙄

JUST LAST MONTH I FOUND OUT MY MISSING DAUGHTER IS NOW 18yrs and already a Mom herself 😠 , the Mother of my 18yr old daughter has been deceased , unaware to me , our last confrontation was back in my hometown when she was 2 months preg and after delivery , she simply went off with my daughter 🤬

i dislike BUMP BRAGGERS PERIOD 🖕🏽

i never got to be part of the upbringing I was sidelined denied access , lied to about paternity etc etc , 🙄🤦🏽‍♂️ BUMP PATROL POLICE SHOULD BE ENFORCED BY LAW !!! WHY YOU BRAGGING ABOUT A KID AS IF YOU MADE IT ALL BY YOURSELF 🤦🏽‍♂️ EISHHHH WOMEN

[NathanDavis]

for the same reason you always pose like an absolute douchebag for your profile pictures

there's absolutely no need to

many will find it nasty

but others might like it... some women are just proud of the fact that are indeed the bearers of the greatest gift that life can be

and other people just seem to be proud to show their 100 dollar eyebrow's job, like you do with yours...

to each their own, I guess...

[kylee2437]

Calling him out on his filtered pics 😭

[NathanDavis]

@kylee2437 calling out bullshit where I see it...

how is it possible that a dude who spends more money on getting his eyebrows done... and uses every filter available on his phone (probably downloaded a couple more) is always talking shit about women and "calling them out" on the same thing he does... lol

[Danny_dan92]

Another dumb fuck that doesn’t know a thing about me. I don’t get my eyebrows done or use filters.

If I used filters. Wouldn’t the color tone be the same throughout the whole picture? Oh right. Maybe you’re both hating ignorant people.

Remain stupid

[NathanDavis]

you mad bro?

[NathanDavis]

I don't really need to know more to need that you're just insecure AF...

only a fool like you would try to pretend those eyebrows are natural, lmfao

and those pics of yours are more filtered than NASA's air chambers

[Danny_dan92]

Correcting ignorance lol

Seems you mad you don’t look like me. Claiming I’m not legit. Fixated on my looks eh? It’s all good. I have flaws too, like everyone else. But you don’t see me trying to make false claims about others, cause I don’t need to. Confidence is a bliss

[NathanDavis]

" you don't see me posting false claims about others "

you say that literally about posting shit about women and how they want to look like

yeah, nobody is perfect... but that's not an excuse to be a douchebag and to be hating on women celebrating life

make something good with yours instead and be happy about whatever you have going on for you

because you keep coming here to post shit about women, that's not exactly the best reflection of what confidence truly is

again, you only have yourself to fool... yourself

[Danny_dan92]

Spoken like a true white knight simp

[NathanDavis]

sure... keep calling me all that stuff you want

we all know that's the only thing you got... name calling

because there's no way you can defend those 100 dollar eyebrows or those triple filter on your profile pics

have a blast calling me every name on the book,

[Danny_dan92]

My instagram would make you look stupid. Just saying. Keep hating.

[NathanDavis]

spoken like a true social diva...

lmao...

[kylee2437]

@NathanDavis is correct. It takes a real A hole to be upset about things that make others happy, like I don't know having a baby. Having a baby is a real life thing and such, and people should be allowed to celebrate bringing life into this world.

[7Phoenix7]

That gif 🤣 😂 💀

[CrabCakes11]

1. I’m sorry you think a natural pregnant stomach is “nasty” to you. It sounds like you have some weird bias to work through

2. If infertile women are too sensitive to see a pregnant woman, they should probably not go in public or public social media in which pregnant women exist. Just because somebody can’t handle a normal state of existence doesn’t mean that it’s the other person’s problem. You don’t see short people trying to ban photos of tall people because they’re insecure about their height

3. It’s extremely different from a fat person posting a picture of their stomach since being pregnant is a major event and literally brings life into the world. Plus, who cares if fat women wanted to post their bellies online. Just keep scrolling

[Danny_dan92]

I don’t think all pregnant bellies look repulsive. Read what I said. I gave specific examples of when it doesn’t look good.

[CrabCakes11]

80% of women get a dark line down their bellies. I’m sorry you find a natural woman repulsive.

[Danny_dan92]

Source?

[CrabCakes11]

Google what percent of pregnant women will get linea negra

[Danny_dan92]

👍🏼

[CrabCakes11]

It doesn’t let me post links

[Danny_dan92]

Cool

[kylee2437]

You should see grandmas response that blocked me because she insisted women wear smocks and hide in shame during their pregnancies

[kylee2437]

@sage2021

[CrabCakes11]

@kylee2437 Yeah she’s strange. Older women carry the shame that was instilled in them from bygone toxic culture and try to enforce it on younger, more liberated women

[Danny_dan92]

The same generation of women that want to be “free and liberating” also say they are being objectified…

Make that make sense. 🤡

[CrabCakes11]

It does make sense. I’m sorry you’re too dense to understand nuance

[Danny_dan92]

Forsure. Have a good day

[kylee2437]

@Danny_dan92 then date the old women that are ashamed because they feel like they have to dance around men’s rules. Problem solved. Sulk in misery together

[Danny_dan92]

I know women that are sexy but aren’t hoes either. Those are ones that were raised with principles.

A lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets.

[CrabCakes11]

There will never be a woman in your sheets so you won’t have to worry about that. Rest assured that neither the virgins or thots want you.

[Danny_dan92]

Lol

Ok… not what my dm’s tell me

[CrabCakes11]

I’m sure buddy. Keep telling yourself that. I can see why your profile says single

[Danny_dan92]

I don’t want a relationship. Have yet to find a woman worth marrying. Too many hoes. Only good to fuck 😂

But just notice how you’re throwing jabs and I’m saying things to you like “have a good day”

You’re triggered, I’m not. You don’t know what my life is like, I do. So again, have a good day.

[CrabCakes11]

Why do you keep responding then. Usually saying have a good day ends a conversation but you’re a needy pushover who thrives on conflict

[kylee2437]

@Danny_dan92 you are a grown man using a filtered selfie. You have no say on what a woman should be like

[Danny_dan92]

That’s not filtered lol

[kylee2437]

@Danny_dan92 sure. Shitting on women when every post has to do with you ranting about how miserably you think says to me you have no choice on being single. Nobody wants to put up with someone like you

[Danny_dan92]

Lmao

[sage2021]

You were born too late guy because if you had been around in the old days, woman wore "Smocks" when they were in the state of knock.
I was pregnant in 1977 and I wore pants with a smock like all women or we wore dresses that were big in the tummy area so no one ever saw "The bump".
Modestly has gone out the window for sure.
I am a woman and I think wearing skin tight clothes that shows the bump is a terrible look. I guess these women don't know how stupid they look.
I wonder if there is alternative clothing they could buy and wear. Do all pregnant women wear the skin tight clothes that shows the bump. Surely not every woman likes that look.
You're right, these women need to get some modesty in their wardrobe.

[sage2021]

@kylee2437
I am almost 70 years old sweetie and it was the style back then. I was not ashamed of my pregnant body.
It had nothing to do with shame honey! We met when were in our 60's.
I don't play the shame game anyway.
Just shut up!

[Danny_dan92]

I’ve paid a lot of attention to trends in society, my sister is a psych major. So I learned a lot about human behavior from her findings.

Social media has changed society (mainly women) to be more promiscuous and feel the need to show more and more skin.

I’ll give an example. There is a girl I follow on instagram. She’s a single mother. That would get with a guy and while in a relationship post thirst traps. Us men know why women that post stuff like this do, they want to see what guys are interested (when girls hear men say this a good amount of them immediately get triggered) but it’s true. Going back to this girl, she’s had terrible luck holding a relationship. Recently she got with another guy and he got her pregnant. She was around 8-9 months pregnant and she had a baby shower… here’s where things get disturbing.

Instead of wearing normal clothes. She was wearing a dress where the material was cut in a way her belly was completely visible. From pictures and videos you could tell a lot of the family members were somewhat disturbed by her choice in clothing. It’s taboo as fuck.

But again, women are being programmed by social media apps that showing more skin is in. But as the saying goes “time and place” there’s a time and place for everything.

[CrabCakes11]

We get it, you’re ashamed of pregnancy and think every body else should be

[Kelly6]

@Danny_dan92 We just get excited and feel happy and proud of it and love to show it.

There is no shame in it, I always show it when I'm pregnant

[Danny_dan92]

See this is a good answer and provides some context. Instead of the immature lashing

[Kelly6]

@Danny_dan92
Thanks,

[Danny_dan92]

No, thank you for being mature about it

[kylee2437]

@Danny_dan92 nobody is unreasonably lashing. You went out of your way to call pregnant women nasty when no one even asked for this unreasonable opinion

[Danny_dan92]

You’re generalizing sweetheart.

Work on your reading and comprehension. I did not say ALL women. If you notice I said that SOMETIMES women don’t have a nice belly. That’s the truth. Even Kelly here told me that sometimes it doesn’t look good. But go ahead and continue to be abrasive

[kylee2437]

@Danny_dan92 there’s no generalizing, you continuously say disrespectful/negative crap and expect people to be respectful towards you. What a victim you are

[Danny_dan92]

Professional deflector. Idc if people disagree lol but when you try to label me in ways that are overtly untrue then yeah. I will have something to say. Case in point read the conversation I had with Kelly. Her views were different but she also wasn’t rude about it… unlike you. But you like arguing and starting shit.

👋🏼

[kylee2437]

@Danny_dan92 again we aren’t talking about the fact that you don’t like pineapple on your pizza, we are talking about your negativity towards people posting things that make them happy/scared/ nervous/ in real life. Men having any words towards women being pregnant is flat out obnoxious to say the least.

[Danny_dan92]

You’ve never had an opinion about men’s behavior… got it

[kylee2437]

@Danny_dan92 what does that have to do with a pregnant body? Let’s not redirect here. You are upset about what is being posted online constantly, maybe log off.

[Danny_dan92]

Also why are you posting this on kelly’s post. You have yours, she doesn’t deserve to be bothered with notifications pertaining to a conversation that doesn’t involve her

[Danny_dan92]

Not constantly. Last three questions were definitely not about that

[kylee2437]

@Danny_dan92 you mentioned something unreasonable about other people lashing and I can chime in if I want. Especially to let you know that other peoples lashing in this circumstance is not unreasonable and you shouldn’t be feeling like you are a victim towards it when your own words got you here

[Danny_dan92]

Sorry kelly

[kylee2437]

You are such a negative Nancy dude. This is the second post of you I’ve seen being a Debbie downer about what makes other people laugh / happy. Lighten up.

[JustinTheGreat]

You acknowledged that growing life is precious and exciting so I don’t get where the confusion is coming from.

[kylee2437]

It’s because he’s a negative Nancy. He gets upset whenever people are excited about something