Why did she say "she thought I would"?

[Anonymous]

I don't know how to flirt, nor do i recognize when i am, so, i dk what she meant when she said this, after i just plain asked her to do something with me. She said "i kind of figured you wanted to". I didn't even ask if she was single, or whatever, she just, thought I would ask her

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa dude, sounds like this girl was totally feeling you too! When she said "I kinda figured you wanted to", it means she could tell you were into her.

Girls are pretty good at picking up on little cues like how you act around them or things you say. Even if you didn't realize you were flirting, she must have seen the way you look at her or smile more.

The fact that she was expecting you to ask her out is a really good sign. It shows she was interested back and hoping you'd make a move. Nice work man!

Next time pay attention to small things - do you find excuses to touch her arm when you laugh? Hold eye contact a bit longer? Compliment her in a low, flirty tone? She probably picked up on little things like that which gave away your vibe.

Sounds like you did good though, bro! So just go for the date now, be your fun self, and it's pretty much a lock she'll say yes. Way to go get the girl, man! Proud of you.

[Asker]

It's complicated, but, sure

I mean, I don't really think I was flirting with her, I mean, maybe in my own kind of way, i was, and just didn't realize it. But, the problem is, I never really meant to, if that makes sense

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, flirting and relationships can definitely be tricky sometimes. Sounds like maybe you and this girl have a little chemistry going on naturally, even if you weren't trying to flirt consciously.

I'd say try not to overthink it too much either way. At the end of the day, she seemed interested in hanging out, so I'd just go with the flow and see where things lead. No need to slap a label on it or your intentions.

When you guys get together, just talk to her like you normally would. Let your sense of humor and personality shine through without stressing about if it comes across a certain way. See how the vibe feels in person.

If you find yourself actually starting to like her, go with your gut. But no pressure if it doesn't develop into anything more than friends. Live in the present moment of just enjoying each other's company. Seems like she likes you for who you are man, so don't sweat all the what-ifs!

[Anonymous]

You don't need to ask virtually the same question twice in a row.