How many rejections can my heart take until it can't be fixed?

[RealLifeHarleyQuinn]

When you have had as many rejections, ghostings and girls being mean to me as I have, it takes its toll on you. Over time you really start to doubt yourself because you have almost 30 years as proof that it hasn't worked out at least once. And to prove a point where all I'm asking for is a chance, just one chance and I don't even get that. And all the drugs and therapy wouldn't get me to talk about it not even to this day they just mask my emotional wounds, they don't heal them After awhile you really start to think that ending your life if the only way to escape this daily torture of failure. Take it from me, A man can only take so many rejections before he decides to end it for himself. To quote my favorite saying "The mind bends and twists in order to deal with the horrors of life, sometimes the mind bends so much it snaps in 2, sometimes its not the mind, but the heart".

[Oliverlogan263]

dude that's really rough. Rejection definitely takes a toll over time if it keeps happening. A few thoughts from one dude to another:

- It sounds like you're putting a ton of pressure on yourself to "prove" something with one girl. But they can probably sense that desperation which is a turn-off.

- Focus on just talking to lots of girls casually without expectations. Work on being a good listener and making them smile, not playing the outcome.

- hit the gym, pick up a hobby, do stuff just for you. Improving your confidence within will attract people to you.

- 30 ain't old man! Don't trip, you've got your best years ahead still. Gotta stay positive.

- Never forget that YOUR value isn't defined by whether some girl wants you. Try volunteering or helping out - you'll meet all kinds of cool people that way.

I know it's tough, believe me. But don't even think about seriously harming yourself over this. You seem like a caring dude - you'll find someone who sees that in you too one day if you keep your head up. Just keep trying new things and stay busy with what makes YOU happy. You've got this bro!

[Anonymous]

The good news man is after you're broken, you're ready! You're numb. You cannot be harmed you are impervious to women's games or tricks because you feel nothing anymore. Then You can date like a psychopath.👍👹💯

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