This girl finally talked to me after ignoring me all summer at her work?

[Anonymous]

i first meet her there around June and we never really seemed to hit it off but i still really was into her , i even asked her to do a shot at bar once but she said no

anyways the other night i was back at the place she worked and talked to her when she was nearby and she replied back and we talked a bit about various things and seemed to actually get along really well

but this also happened after she saw me talk to this other girl who works at same restaurant and that i hadn't seen since last summer.

so like maybe she got jealous when she saw me with other girl but she never seemed very into me at all and is only working there till end of August anyways as its just a summer time restaurant and she has other plans for fall

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude that is so weird that she finally started talking to you after ignoring you all summer! Girls can be so confusing sometimes.

My best guess is that maybe she did get a little jealous seeing you chat up that other girl. Even if she didn't really act into you before, girls sometimes only want what they can't have I guess. Or maybe she just now decided to give you a chance since summers almost over.

Either way, I'd take it as a good sign that she was chatting with you finally! Next time you see her, try chatting her up some more. Ask her fun questions to keep the conversation flowing. Then maybe you can get her number before she leaves for her other fall plans.

Who knows, maybe she'll agree to hang out one last time before she goes. Don't bring up how she ignored you all summer though - play it cool like that didn't bother you. If it goes well, maybe you can turn this into something more! You never know with girls man, they can surprise you. Fingers crossed she wasn't just being friendly.

[CuriousHubby]

Probably got jealous and wanted to finally give you a shot. Maybe she was crushing and to shy to try talking with you?

Sounds like a dumb game she played

[Asker]

the whole thing was dumb , it does seem like she got jealous that i talked to that other girl when she was near us , its odd it seems like we might of got along fine had we hit it off at start of summer instead and actually spent some time together

[CuriousHubby]

Very dumb but it happens