Girl's Behavior

Do Americans think foreigners are after their passport?

I am from Jordan
I moved to Barcelona last year
I made this group of friends and for the first time I had a lot of female friends
I particularly spent a lot of time with one girl (American) we were going to dinners , drinks bars and night clubs together
I told her I like her and she was only interested in non exclusive non monogamy and I said I don’t want that we stayed friends but
She really played with my feelings for months while she was fucking 2 guys in the group

Eventually everyone found out and people stayed away from her

I got a lot of support from the other people in the group including the other American girl who took it upon herself to prove this is not my fault


And again because of the lots of time I was spending with her
I ended up developing feelings for her , she said she was considering me for a while (when we were spending a lot of time) but rejected me because she doesn’t want to put effort into teaching me about relationships as I never had one

She said she will keep it to herself and will not tell anyone

Now other girls in the group joking with me that I am after the American passport and they know an American baker that I should marry


I am very shy especially around girls I don’t know well. I openly told them I don’t want find love and get married and have children

I am very sensitive and I couldn’t handle these Jokes so I withdrew from the group quietly
I am so sad that people thought this of me.
Do Americans think foreigners are after their passport?
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