Which gender do you think has more real friendships?

[massb]

I feel like ofc both can have real friendships. But I feel men see each other for who we are , not what we look like. Women are friends based off how each other look for the most part then get to know each other later. Also women lie to each other on superficial stuff all the time. Men do lie as well but more on feelings than on surface level stuff. Men hold each other accountable rather than women do.

Men have more real Friendships

Women have more real friendships

Both do

Not sure

[MisterWack]

“Both Do”
I’ve had fake friends and I’ve has real friends.
My girlfriend had fake friends and she also has real friends.

Both do I’d say.

[massb]

Yea that's very true. I have male friends that tell me the truth and that are there for me and female friends in the past that just tried to use me so. Also I see girls lie to each other a lot

[MisterWack]

@massb Yeah I’ve seen this mess unfold everywhere, my female friends in particular are real ones who don’t lie or judge me & my male friends too.

[massb]

That's good I'm happy for you and that's why I only have male friends

[Chthou95]

Generally speaking men have better friendships. We're more honest with eachother & don't take shit too serious. You can joke around & it's not a big deal. Women have a harder time maintaining friendships because a lot of women are disingenuous with eachother. There's more drama invloved in female friendships.

[massb]

Exactly that's what I'm saying and I agree

[Anonymous]

I don't know, it seems like guys have more genuine, lasting, drama-free friendships whereas women tend to more often be disingenuous and catty and you don't know for sure where yo stand with them.

[massb]

Exactly I agree

[alice55]

I think it's about the same as anyway most people just ghost their friends when they get married and have children

[massb]

Yes that's very true

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Both do, I don't see differences really, and even if I saw differences it's quite impossible to measure, very subjective

[massb]

Touche

[scott04sa22]

They say when you have college degrees you have and make more friends 🤷🏻‍♂️

[massb]

How so?

[DrPepper12]

Undoubtedly women. Men are in a mental health crisis for lack of friendship, conversation and emotional talk. I've learned one of my, and men in general, biggest problem is WE DON'T ASK FOR HELP WHEN WE NEED IT!!

[massb]

Even though that may be true. I feel like women can connect emotionally yes, but take everything to heart. Women are allowed to be emotional men are not that's why. So I wouldn't say because off that that women have better friendships. Women can't even be honest with each other.

[DrPepper12]

True. The women tearing each other down is real and toxic

[massb]

Exactly