Was I wrong for disciplining my girlfriend by spanking her?

[Anonymous]

So basically my girlfriend enjoys playfully wrestling with me, which I don’t really care for I prefer nice touching with her. However she’s failed to respect my boundary here and continues to “play” fight where she will be very rough and complain if I do anything back to her.

Well she ended up slapping my balls, not very hard but it still hurt and I’ve told her many times I don’t like that even as a joke. So this time I just reflexively spanked her really hard and it shocked her and instantly made her start crying. It was only a single slap on her ass but it was enough.

The weird thing was after a few minutes of crying she started hugging me and apologizing a lot. She got spanked a lot as a kid, so maybe physical punishment is the only thing she takes seriously, I don’t know.

Anyways even though I did feel bad for hurting her, it felt good to finally feel respected by her and gave me ideas for how to deal with her behavior in the future.

Did I go too far and was it wrong to put my hands on her like that at all?

Yes you were wrong

No she deserved it

[PeachyPie93]

Sometimes it is needed, some bitches don't learn til you hurt them. I had a friend who would always punch me in the arm and I told her multiple times for months to stop doing it cuz it hurt and she would always laugh and do it again at a later time. So one day she did it and I just punched her as hard as I could in her arm and she started crying. And was like "you broke my arm, I didn't hit you that hard" blah blah blah crying I just said I told you many times before to stop fucking doing it! She was mad at me but never did it again lol. People should learn to keep their fucking hands to themselves.

[Anonymous]

Ouch... No, you weren't wrong.

[MisterWack]

Asker: “ Well she ended up slapping my balls, not very hard but it still hurt and I’ve told her many times I don’t like that even as a joke. So this time I just reflexively spanked her really hard and it shocked her and instantly made her start crying. It was only a single slap on her ass but it was enough.”

My solution: Sit her down and explain the testicles of why they are sensitive. Explain they are also the reproductive organ of men and she should be more careful, soft, and nice with them…. Say it makes you feel hurt emotionally & physically, that she doesn’t respect you and that is why you spanked her in a moment of weakness. Tell her to never mess with your testicles ever again and to respect your wishes.

[MisterWack]

P. S. Apologize for spanking her and making her cry though remind her never to hit your testicles again.

[Asker]

I have talked to her like that already and she clearly didn’t care so this is what it’s come to, she knows testicles are sensitive and doesn’t seem to care so I’ll make her respect me by force

[Anonymous]

Kinda hot. I love getting spanked, espicially until I cry and then we f*ck after.

[Asker]

It is hot it's the best way to passionately connect with a girl

[DishLady]

Are you joking or something? What right do you have to do that to another adult?

Perhaps you mean "spank" in the 50 Shades sense rather than just being a complete dbag.

[Asker]

I do the 50 shades too but women aren’t normal adults they’re more like children emotionally so it makes sense you can discipline them in my opinion

[MisterWack]

“ women aren’t normal adults they’re more like children emotionally “ I have to disagree, it seems like you are taking the flaws of your relationship and justifying the crappy relationship you’re in. I’m sure you’d find a woman who respects your body if you looked for one instead of spending time “discipling” this one….

[boggboss]

This is more likely then not just some rage bait but if its not u "punished" her by doing what she did to you back to her in the end it was just abusive

[Asker]

Is it abusive to spank a child that misbehaves? If not, why is it abuse to spank a woman that acts like a child with poor behavior?

[boggboss]

Your language pretty much shows why it is abusive you view your *partner* as u would view a child thats the only way to justify spanking/disciplining her which in and of itself speaks to a even more disturbing reality when don't see your partner as a equal to yourself but as somthing u need to punish when stepping out of line

[DrPepper12]

You two need to discuss desires, boundaries and safe words

[MisterWack]

Exactly and if you can’t have a discussion then break up! This asker typed something really degrading & sexist claiming “ women aren’t normal adults they’re more like children emotionally “ which is just the insecurities of this relationship being printed on all women…. Pathetic and gross.

[Asker]

@MisterWack it is literally true for all women it just depends on the extent that they allow their emotions to justify poor behavior. Some have better self-control than others but they have the same hormones and their behavior can be generalized. Part of becoming a man is learning how to deal with this and figure out how to win all the bs games they make you play. If you think you are with a woman who doesn't play games and is mature, she's just better at hiding it or dressing it up in "mature" sounding language.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Yeaaaah, not buying this story tbh. Even if it were true, you two abusing each other is a recipe for disaster.

[Jpie555]

You’re lucky that she likes wrestling with you… very hot!😛

[thearchjoker]

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