How does a man properly vet his partner and determine if she would stay loyal to him through both good times and bad times?

[WhiteBoyChill]

To clarify, no matter how attractive a woman was, no matter how much I felt in love with her, or she felt in love with me, I would never marry a woman unless I was absolutely 100% certain in my mind without a conscious doubt that she would remain loyal to me, even in the face of major setbacks, like if I was to lose my job, or lose all my money.

My point is, I do have a serious fear about relationships. I fear that as a generous person, I could get taken advantage of.

I’d want whoever I’m with’s love to be unconditional. Not based around whether or not I have enough money or status.

I’d want whoever I’m with to love me for me, and solely for me.

I’d want to be completely certain that whatever woman I married wouldn’t just ditch me the second I lost my job, or faced some kind of major life setback.

So with that being said, how can a man accurately gauge whether a woman is this kind of person?

In what ways could he accurately test her love, loyalty and commitment?

[avery58]

I don't think love should be tested. Just observe her personality, especially around money. If she doesn't ask you to buy her stuff or doesn't like you spend a lot of money on her, is willing to split bills etc then those are usually good signs.

[Alwayreckles93]

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[Alwayreckles93]

*Christian Mingle I apologize for misspelled that word. I type way to fast lol. But yeah pray about it and give it a try 🙏

[OlderAndWiser]

You should date long enough to have experienced a few conflicts/disagreements/arguments/whatever. That is when the facade comes down, emotions come to the surface, and you see what kind of person she really is. Will she throw things, call you names, file false police reports, call you names and say she hates you, or will she suggest a time out to cool off and talking about things when you both aren't so worked up?

[LiamJHayden]

Unfortunately there is no 100%. People change over time, so if either is not committed to keep going through thick and thin, it will fall apart. It might not end in divorce, but there are a lot of married couples who live like roommates.

[slatyb]

That's not possible. You can never know, you can only go by their past behavior.

[Woodysroundup]

Truth is you can't ever know %100. Just like someone can't know exactly what you're thinking or will do in the future. It's a leap of faith for sure but you have to do it if you want a long term relationship

[Jamie05rhs]

Hide your money.