What are signs to look for that your new partner is actually loyal to you?

[Anonymous]

After being cheated on by previous partners, I honestly come to the realization being cheated on is just apart of being in a relationship despite how good you treat her or them. But I still like to hang on to hope that not all women or people are like that despite being able to connect to practically any guy they want through online or texting.

So what I would like to know is what are any signs people give that show they really are loyal to you.
Also what are signs people display that shows they aren't loyal to you even if they say they are.

[Anonymous]

You poor thing, of course being cheated on doesn’t come with being in a relationship, and I’m sorry you’ve had enough experiences to even form that conclusion. I can’t blame you, you won’t believe differently until you are experiencing it, otherwise all you know is what you’ve gone through.


As for signs that the woman will be loyal, unless they’re blatant like she’s hanging all over men or outwardly acting single, there aren’t any. You do your due diligence in the talking phase, learn about her morals and background, it helps determine what sort of partner she will be.

[PeachyPie93]

They call when they are out
They don't hide their phone from you
Don't flirt with others in front of you
They legit enjoy your company
They want to please you
They show they care by doing little things to help or take care of you

Check out their friends (if all their friends are hoes its likely so is your partner, though there are exceptions)
If you always feel that you love them more or do more to keep the show running (its probably true and they don't really love you)
If you can't be vulnerable around them (they probably don't love you)

[Nikki1989]

That takes time, but most men show their true colours within the first 6 months.

[slatyb]

They consistently do what they say they will do.