Relationship Advice? Ladies what do you think I should do?

[UnicornoD]

Should I Tell my girlfriend of 4 months that knows me as a heterosexual man's man that solves problems, lifts weights, and protect and provides that every 4 to 6 months I really enjoy getting high on hard drugs and blowing one or two guys for money with panties and leggings on. Womens bottoms. She is non judgmental and every understanding and truly loves me. But, I feel that is a lot to tell someone.

[Selene1600000]

f you want a real long term relationship with her, honesty matters. You do not need to tell her every graphic detail right away, but hiding a big part of your life will eventually damage trust. Before telling her, be honest with yourself about whether this is something occasional, an addiction, or part of your identity.

[marshmallowcream]

You definitely have to tell her , it’d be terrible if she finds out some other way and everything always comes out eventually

[katiesmuff]

Oh Yes I'd tell her if I were you! I don't see where she would have any issue with that lifestyle at all.

[Nikki1989]

That is a lot to unload onto someone, but it probably needs to be done.